crackerjax9 Posted March 16, 2009 Posted March 16, 2009 so my boyfriend and i got into a fight last night..we were on a cute little walk when he decided to bring up the first time i gave head to someone .. it really pissed me off and i was angry at him for at least 2 hours .. i left his house fed up with being mad and he ran after me and grabbed me too hard and asked what i was doing.. he kind of hurt me in the process ..we fought for a few hour sin my car and he asked me to break up with him so i did ( i was really angry and not really caring whether or not i was with him) and so he told me to shake on it... he grabbed my hand and squeezed it really hard it really hurt so i slapped him as hard as i could..after that i started crying and he kept saying he wished he could hit me but couldnt cuz i was girl and that freaked me out a little bit... weve been rocky since the start but have really been working at it lately.. idk why his question bothered me so much on our walk and how it got that far.....i love him...do i stay with him or walk away? what do i do?
Template Posted March 16, 2009 Posted March 16, 2009 Run Run Run This @$$ wipe is trying to put you in a fearful state. He has basically emtionally and physically abused you, and I don't think you know it. There is no reason for a person to consciously hurt someone. I mean c'mon - "shake on it!?!?!?!" no guy "Shake's on it" to break up with a girl. We just walk away. He purposely did that to purposefully hurt you, to assert dominance. So you got mad... and probably so did he.. There is absolutely NO REASON for his behavior. It is just a matter of time before, he does worse things to you. Mark my word! If you stay with him, you've already established that you are the type of person that will tolerate his behavior, and he'll just keep on testing you harder and harder. RUN
huck Posted March 16, 2009 Posted March 16, 2009 No brainer.. Tell the coward to shove it. Absolutely no one (male or female) - should put up with any kind of threats or violence - theres every chance he will get nastier in the future. Find a REAL man that will treat you right.. Theres plenty out there...
Author crackerjax9 Posted March 16, 2009 Author Posted March 16, 2009 so hard...ive been moping around all day
Author crackerjax9 Posted March 17, 2009 Author Posted March 17, 2009 so we texted at aroudn 3 and the last thing he said was have a great life..so miserable i just wanna roll over and die
Beautiful Inside Posted March 17, 2009 Posted March 17, 2009 i think everything really does happen for a reason i think that he was a lil too aggressive and it would be scary to be in that situation...i know you love him but dont mistake that you didnt do anything to deserve that i think hes like hot tempered and has to be the dominate one no?... im just guessing ive been in a situation where i was so scared before and didnt know what to do ....the screaming the yelling the crying they wont let you leave....its so violent and it made me so sensitive thats how i am now i walk around like anyone could say something and ill cry....this guy really jacked me up.... i ay leave before its too late...
Author crackerjax9 Posted March 19, 2009 Author Posted March 19, 2009 now im beginning to think we blew this totally out of proportion and i overreacted...hes really upset and begging i dont think he meant to squeeze me that hard and me slapping him was just my reaction to that...we really love eachother and his is trying... should i give it another chance?
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