dreamergrl Posted March 16, 2009 Posted March 16, 2009 We had a great weekend! Saturday we ended up just hanging out. I apologized for being so moody and everything, he told me not to, that he already forgave me, he also went ahead an apologized for handling it the way he did (the threatening to break up). It was a wonderful day. I started getting a little teary eyed, just because everything was so good. Like tears of happiness (omg how mushy is that). Then on Sunday we visited with his family. His mom is very nice. She even gave me a hug. I can't believe how worried I was. I feel so dumb lol. Oh and now the psycho ex is emailing me on myspace, telling me I'm just a rebound girl, and he wants her back. If it's not one thing it's another.
Art_Critic Posted March 16, 2009 Posted March 16, 2009 Oh and now the psycho ex is emailing me on myspace, telling me I'm just a rebound girl, and he wants her back. If it's not one thing it's another. Is the guy you are dating the store guy ? If he is then how in the heck did his ex get to your myspace page ? Drama is never a good thing DG... the guy is full of drama and his drama gets worse with his ex contacting you.. You might want to rethink this relationship and how good of a catch he really is... JMO
Author dreamergrl Posted March 16, 2009 Author Posted March 16, 2009 Because we added each other (me and bf). I've already blocked her from contacting me further. She's just upset because he deleted her from his page, and isn't over him. I'm not even upset by it. I remember being 21 and more drama filled. Then I grew up. It will pass. It's not like we run into her.
Author dreamergrl Posted March 16, 2009 Author Posted March 16, 2009 Yeah I'm babbling now, but I feel just so content. Like, we had an amazing talk. We're on the same page. I don't feel worried, or scared. It was like the perfect weekend. When his ex emailed me, instead of getting upset, I just brushed it off. It was such a good feeling to not have emotions weighing on my shoulders. I have this excitement about this relationship bubbling inside o me. I feel good about it.
northstar1 Posted March 16, 2009 Posted March 16, 2009 We had a great weekend! Saturday we ended up just hanging out. I apologized for being so moody and everything, he told me not to, that he already forgave me, he also went ahead an apologized for handling it the way he did (the threatening to break up). It was a wonderful day. I started getting a little teary eyed, just because everything was so good. Like tears of happiness (omg how mushy is that). Then on Sunday we visited with his family. His mom is very nice. She even gave me a hug. I can't believe how worried I was. I feel so dumb lol. Oh and now the psycho ex is emailing me on myspace, telling me I'm just a rebound girl, and he wants her back. If it's not one thing it's another. Ok good, back on track. Please remember though to try and not analyze everything so much, you've only been dating a month, still very early and still getting to know each other.
Author dreamergrl Posted March 16, 2009 Author Posted March 16, 2009 Ok good, back on track. Please remember though to try and not analyze everything so much, you've only been dating a month, still very early and still getting to know each other. I know. But it's a big thing for me when I can actually get myself to work through my insecurities. I feel good about myself in that aspect, ya know? Even if it doesn't work out between me and him, at least I know I have the power to gain control over my feelings.
likestolaugh Posted March 16, 2009 Posted March 16, 2009 my gf was (I suspect) having her hormonal time of the month a couple days ago when I saw her... I remembered this thread and just treated her with feathered gloves. I figured it unwise to push unintentional buttons. anyway dreamer, I'm glad to hear it! (*high five*!) I had a feeling it would end up well, unless the guy was delusional, which he obviously isn't.
chrislovestosurf Posted March 16, 2009 Posted March 16, 2009 you went and asked him out, that takes a lot of balls. Keep your head high the world needs more women like you.
northstar1 Posted March 16, 2009 Posted March 16, 2009 I know. But it's a big thing for me when I can actually get myself to work through my insecurities. I feel good about myself in that aspect, ya know? Even if it doesn't work out between me and him, at least I know I have the power to gain control over my feelings. \ Good for you, that's what it's all about!
Art_Critic Posted March 16, 2009 Posted March 16, 2009 my gf was (I suspect) having her hormonal time of the month a couple days ago when I saw her...I remembered this thread and just treated her with feathered gloves. I figured it unwise to push unintentional buttons. You didn't just post that ...
Author dreamergrl Posted March 16, 2009 Author Posted March 16, 2009 my gf was (I suspect) having her hormonal time of the month a couple days ago when I saw her... I remembered this thread and just treated her with feathered gloves. I figured it unwise to push unintentional buttons. anyway dreamer, I'm glad to hear it! (*high five*!) I had a feeling it would end up well, unless the guy was delusional, which he obviously isn't. LOL that's kinda funny. I find myself remembering certain threads at times, and rethink how I'd react. you went and asked him out, that takes a lot of balls. Keep your head high the world needs more women like you. Thanks! Yeah, I don't ever ask guys out. I think I'm coming a long way as a person, from what I used to be, especially when I first started coming here. \ Good for you, that's what it's all about! :D:D
Touche Posted March 16, 2009 Posted March 16, 2009 You didn't just post that ... At least he doesn't spout off about the Native Americans and putting their women in separate teepees during that time and how they had the right idea and how he's going to put one out back for me, etc. Sheesh...and Mr. T thinks it's funny every time he says it. It's not. Good for you dreamer! We told you to chill out! And here you thought he was breaking up with you...see? Let this be a lesson.
Author dreamergrl Posted March 16, 2009 Author Posted March 16, 2009 At least he doesn't spout off about the Native Americans and putting their women in separate teepees during that time and how they had the right idea and how he's going to put one out back for me, etc. Sheesh...and Mr. T thinks it's funny every time he says it. It's not. Good for you dreamer! We told you to chill out! And here you thought he was breaking up with you...see? Let this be a lesson. I've always wondered how men would deal with pmsing.
Touche Posted March 16, 2009 Posted March 16, 2009 I've always wondered how men would deal with pmsing. Yeah, well I guess they all deal with it differently. Mine makes dumb jokes about how other cultures "handled" their women during this time. Soooo not amusing.
Art_Critic Posted March 16, 2009 Posted March 16, 2009 I've always wondered how men would deal with pmsing. We would start wars..
Author dreamergrl Posted March 16, 2009 Author Posted March 16, 2009 Yeah, well I guess they all deal with it differently. Mine makes dumb jokes about how other cultures "handled" their women during this time. Soooo not amusing. LOL I meant if they actually had to go through pms. Mine, up until I got real moody, told me to just take a warm bath and relax.
Touche Posted March 16, 2009 Posted March 16, 2009 Ohhhh, duh! I see what you mean Dreamer. AC they already start wars. So just out of curiosity I looked up about these Native American practices because for all I know he's been making that up all these years. But I found this: In certian tribes the woman were banned from their main living quarters and sent to special huts or tents during their peroids. The men considered the period bad luck. If a woman having her period touched a male possesion they would destroy it as being cursed and beat the woman.
Star Gazer Posted March 16, 2009 Posted March 16, 2009 We would start wars.. :lmo: You already do!!! I'm glad you had your talk and are feeling so much better, Dreamer. That pit in the stomach feeling is the worst. I'm happy you're over that.
Author dreamergrl Posted March 16, 2009 Author Posted March 16, 2009 Thanks SG! I'm glad I have everyone for such good advice. It really is helpful!
likestolaugh Posted March 17, 2009 Posted March 17, 2009 You didn't just post that ... well maybe I made it sound a bit too sugary. What I meant was I didn't react to her somewhat less than pleasurable demeanor. If I had, I can definitely see a situation like dreamer's having happened.
SoulSearch_CO Posted March 17, 2009 Posted March 17, 2009 That's excellent to hear, DG. I'm glad things smoothed over. Yeah, Touche - I believe they called it the Moon Hut. (Periods happening every 28 days on average, the moon being on a 28-day cycle.) I believe there was actually a pit to bleed into. Women are believed to be unclean at that time of month in MANY cultures. It has a lot to do with men not understanding what it was about.
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