7117 Posted March 16, 2009 Posted March 16, 2009 Ok heres the deal I will try to make this quick no guarantee I can.I go out of town for a gathering not knowing that one of my sisters friends is gonna be there now mind you I have liked this girl for a couple years.We get to the gathering I see her I use the blow her off method talk to other girls she gets jealous I got her attention now big time.We hit a couple bars after the gathering things are going good we kiss a couple times.My ride leaves me now need to find a room to stay in and to my luck I was with about 20 people stayin in the same hotel.I go to sleep in my brother in laws room and this girl comes down a couple floors asking people where I am and tells me come to her room to drink more of course I say ok I high five a couple guys and go.We go back to her room and have sex it was one of my best performances ever thank you jameson nice irish whiskey.Anyway we wake up she asked me if we had sex and I now feel horrible about her asking that and say whatever you want it to be but eventually she figured out we did.So now we check out drive home 2 hours good ride home flirting,talking so now she drops me off at my car she leans in for a kiss so we do than again after i get out.She texted me later that night twice and we text a few more times that week i didnt want to be pushy being that she is friends with my sister and knows my family pretty well.Anyway I call her leave a message she responds the next morning at 7a.m with a text saying how busy work and school have been i say cool and ask her in a text if we can go celebrate that school is over.She never responded at all I never sent another because im not psycho stalker guy.I mean is it because she is friends with my sister?She is a bartender do i go to her work for a beer?I just havent because its her work i dont want to make her umcomfortable but i gotta know why she just never responded we will see one another again.
not.who.you.think Posted March 16, 2009 Posted March 16, 2009 I'd personally give it up. I think youre on the right path. As a rule I tend to ask twice, and if i get an ambigious answer or a no both times then I stop pursuing. Who knows what she's thinking... Good job though. Hypothetical high five.
jadelil25 Posted March 16, 2009 Posted March 16, 2009 You need to move on, she clearly is not interested in seeing you any more. It sounds like she just wanted to have some fun with you and that is it. If she is interested then she would have responded. Just go out and have fun with your friends, you will meet someone else when you least expect it. Someone who wants to be with you and is interested in you.
Katherineos123 Posted March 16, 2009 Posted March 16, 2009 I think you should give it some more time, maybe like a week or so, and attempt just ONE more time, anything more than that might seem desperate. Just say something along the lines of, hey its me, i sent you a message last week, and im not sure if you got it, but i was wondering if you wanted to get together sometime this week, give me a call! if she doesnt respond to that... then meh! C'est la vie.
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