kapchamp Posted March 16, 2009 Posted March 16, 2009 I called an old friend of mine up who I hadn't seen in a while. We arranged to go see a movie and we had fun. I asked her to go to my school dance next week, and the whole dance went well. My friend asked if we were dating, and she said "It's still up in the air." When I took her home, we kissed. I thought that all was going well, but I was not able to contact her for about 2 weeks. Eventually, one of my friends who knows her said that she lost her phone and wanted my number. This gave me hope, and we talked for a while. After this, she went incommunicado for another 2 weeks. I was starting to get frustrated because she would never reply to me. Eventually, we set up to meet today for a picnic. She was really enthusiastic and said she tell me the details. She never did, and now I am pissed. Prom is coming up, and I don't want to miss my senior prom. She is really busy with school and work, and I understand that. Usually I am pretty good about being accomodating, and I really like this girl. However, being unable to ever reach her is frustrating and making me wonder if she is even at all interested. Should I move on and forget the prom? Or should I keep trying to make this work?
SoulSearch_CO Posted March 16, 2009 Posted March 16, 2009 Girls in HS are so wishy-washy it's hard to say for sure if she's interested or not - she may not even know. But really, if I were in your shoes, I'd find somebody else to take to prom.
colosseum Posted March 16, 2009 Posted March 16, 2009 Girls in HS are so wishy-washy it's hard to say for sure if she's interested or not - she may not even know. But really, if I were in your shoes, I'd find somebody else to take to prom. Lol, frankly I agree. This would even make her more jealous too. Oh prom. Have fun though. That should be your top goal.
jadelil25 Posted March 16, 2009 Posted March 16, 2009 You are best to move on and ask someone else to the prom. It is hard to tell if she is interested or not. There are signs there which say that she is and signs which say that she is not. She could also feel akward about the kiss and is avioding you because of it. It seems like she may not want to be more than friends and is concerned about loosing your friendship/hurting your feelings because she does not want to be more than friends. Sorry to say but trying to be more than friends with someone you have known for a long time really does not work.
dreamergrl Posted March 16, 2009 Posted March 16, 2009 Doesn't sound like she knows what she wants. Why not ask another girl to prom? Then you can do both, move on and still be able to go to prom.
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