A brat in an adult's body the MySpace saga continues

[mortensorchid]

This man in harassing me unlike anything I have ever experienced. I have changed my phone number, changed my screen name, blocked him on all social networking systems and this guy STILL writes trash about me! I will spare all the gory details, but just post a link to his blog here. We had three dates before I decided that I didn't want to see him anymore, that was about a year and a half ago, and he's STILL obsessed with me! This is asinine!

 

http://blogs.myspace.com/index (URL edited by moderators for privacy reasons)

[kdark]

Haha. You really damaged his ego.

 

The last sentence he wrote proves it.

[missdependant]

Ahahahahahaha! What a sad, sad little man.

 

I wanted to leave a comment on it.. but then he might start blogging about me too.

 

I am sorry for you, my dear lol.

[Cherished]

OK well how mature is it to post a blog with names in the first place of men you dated? I mean how old are you?

I think that is so wrong on so many levels and you yourself need to get a life. Yes, let's post a blog on the internet just trashing the heck out of the men I dated this year....I'm sorry that is a bit...psycho.

[Rollercoasterr]

Okay, he's nuts. I read the blog and felt like I needed to go further and look at his pictures. He seriously looks like Wolverine in most of those. haha. Oh goodness, poor guy. Not.

[Touche]

Your first mistake was mentioning his name on your blog which I assume is available for all to see. Why would you do that?

 

I know what it's like to be harassed and stalked on line. Just keep ignoring him. Obviously he cares what you think and is trying to get your attention. It's sad really. Just pity him and move on.

 

I hope you didn't give out too much info because stalkers often become obsessed with researching the object of the person they're obsessed with. (This happened to me...thank god I had a dumb stalker who got their info all wrong!)

 

Also, here are some other characteristics:

 

*Chronic failures in social or sexual relationships.

 

*Stalkers will not take no for an answer. At the bottom of their heart they still believe that the victim will eventually "come around". Because they have little sense of self or identity if they are rejected, they feel as if they have nothing. Consequently, as long as the continue pursuing their victims, the stalkers can convince themselves they haven't been completely rejected yet.

 

*Stalkers display an obsessive personality. In addition, stalkers also may have another psychological or personality disorder, such as erotomania, paranoia, schizophrenia, and delusional thinking. Abandonement issues are also a big part of their psychological make-up.

 

*Stalkers are above average intelligence in some areas. They will often go to ingenious lengths to track down a victim, or obtain information they're looking for. In addition, stalkers many times use their intelligence to throw others off their trail. For example, a stalker in Florida allegedly tapped into his victim's telephone line and then called himself in an effort to make it look as though the victim was harassing him.

 

So be careful and stay away from him. These people have serious issues. They're not normal and you don't know what they might do.

[missdependant]

Okay.. one last comment. This just about killed me...

 

One said "Sorry about the job". As I had deleted him from my contact list on my cell, I texted back "Who is this?" He responded "Who I am is not important; it's who I am that matters". I think that was a quote from one of the Batman movies.

[Cherished]

Let's get real here, though, honey. YOU posted a blog about him in the first place, totally trashing him and using his name!!!! So you don't expect some sort of response?

If you want to talk to your girlfriends, fine, but to post it in the internet????

WHACK.

So you two weren't a good match, move on, don't blog about it, trashing the living heck out of the guy.

Now don't go calling HIM psycho if he blogs a response when YOU blogged trash about him in the FIRST PLACE.

[Lucky_One]

You posted his blog like this, with his personal contact details, on a site like LoveShack? Are you NUTS?

 

I don't know the whole story, but from this thread it appears that both of you have a screw loose and act a bit childish.

[Cherished]

The way I'm reading it, Mortenschild posted a blog relating details of the guys she dated over the span of a year, and totally trashed the living heck out of this one, using his name. This guy is blogging back in response to her blog totally trashing the heck out of him. WTF??? HE is harrassing HER?

SOMETHING I'M MISSING?

[Touche]

I have to agree. Anyone who posts (or tries to anyway) details of a person's life that THEY THEMSELVES HAVE NEVER REVEALED, is really low. It takes a special kind of nutcase to do this.

 

So although I downplayed YOUR part in this, OP, you're equally as guilty as he is. And now you've enraged him so you really better watch it.

 

It almost makes me wonder who is obsessed with whom here.

[Rollercoasterr]

Yeah, now that I'm actually thinking about this...why are you even checking his blog?

[Touche]

Yeah, now that I'm actually thinking about this...why are you even checking his blog?

 

Good point..that's why now I'm wondering who the stalker is here.

[Shygirl15]

No offense but I think both of you are brats in adult bodies.

[Trimmer]

Not that I have stalkerish tendencies or anything, but you do realize that by posting a link to HIS myspace blog here, you have outed YOURSELF, right? I just googled a selection of unique two-word phrases from his quotations of your blog, which led me directly to your myspace. "Your man" looks a lot like Seal in one of those pictures...

 

Be careful what you post and how you post it, if your anonymity is important to you.

[confused_2008]

*slightly off topic rant

 

One of the many reasons why social networking sites suck big time. What used to be gossip limited to personal interactions or, heaven forbid phone conversations, is now plastered all over the internet. Look, not every person you're going to date is a winner, but why must people feel the need to bash other people like this? You went on three ****ing dates with this guy and you both feel the need to blog to the whole world how crappy each other is?

 

You're no less of a brat than he is. You both have dragged this out a year now and where have you gotten?

[Lucky_One]

And YOUR blog was certainly an interesting read!!

[Alpha Female]

Sounds like you are the crazy obsessed person in this story.

 

You are the one who wrote about this guy in December in your public blog. Judging by the length of your blog on him, you seemed to have put a lot of energy towards this guy.

 

All he did was defend himself.

 

But you are the one who is obsessed. And its really crappy form to rip a guy apart 9 months after going out three times. Seems like you were looking for the drama.

 

I suggest you leave him alone, and dont publicly slam prior dates. Makes you look nutty and unstable.

[Touche]

Not that I have stalkerish tendencies or anything, but you do realize that by posting a link to HIS myspace blog here, you have outed YOURSELF, right? I just googled a selection of unique two-word phrases from his quotations of your blog, which led me directly to your myspace. "Your man" looks a lot like Seal in one of those pictures...

 

Be careful what you post and how you post it, if your anonymity is important to you.

 

She didn't out herself really. You had to go through a little effort to find out what you did and then you chose to publicly reveal what you did. (If you even got it right.)

[carhill]

OP, are you OK? Do you want to talk about this?

 

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t171231/

 

Sorry I was the only one to offer an opinion back then...

[Lucky_One]

She didn't out herself really. You had to go through a little effort to find out what you did and then you chose to publicly reveal what you did. (If you even got it right.)

 

I'd say she got it right. A-HA, Sherlock! (for a little insider's joke!)

 

Morten is her #1 (well, sort of, considering that she isn't in Morten's Top 40 LOLOL!!) friend, and with her user name here, I would would call that a pretty big clue that it is easy to find her own Myspace. And you are right - it was a very little effort to find her, but I am definitely bored watching The Two Towers for the 37th time.

[bean1]

I read age 34 on that blog. Is this serious? Are you guys in your 30's? Come on, really? You should both be embarassed by your actions. Shut down the myspace blogs and go pay your heating bills or attend a PTA meeting! You are both too old for this sort of thing!

[Touche]

I'd say she got it right. A-HA, Sherlock! (for a little insider's joke!)

 

Morten is her #1 (well, sort of, considering that she isn't in Morten's Top 40 LOLOL!!) friend, and with her user name here, I would would call that a pretty big clue that it is easy to find her own Myspace. And you are right - it was a very little effort to find her, but I am definitely bored watching The Two Towers for the 37th time.

 

Who is "she"? Trimmer? I thought he was a guy. Anyway, how do you know he got it right? The person that stalked me thought THEY were revealing accurate info too. Not the case. Thankfully, people alerted me to the shenanigans and it was reported because who knows how far they were going to go.

 

Ok, so maybe you found her, maybe not. But if she's not revealing who she is, is it right for others to do so? I mean it's one thing to find it yourself and quite another to POST it here for everyone to see.

 

And trust me, I'm not saying that she's not to blame here. I'm just trying to say that two wrongs don't make a right.

[Touche]

I read age 34 on that blog. Is this serious? Are you guys in your 30's? Come on, really? You should both be embarassed by your actions. Shut down the myspace blogs and go pay your heating bills or attend a PTA meeting! You are both too old for this sort of thing!

 

See? This is exactly what I'm talking about. Did the link that she posted reveal her age? Or is that something you dug up? Is it right to post that here if she hasn't? Isn't that an invasion of her privacy?

[Lucky_One]

See? This is exactly what I'm talking about. Did the link that she posted reveal her age? Or is that something you dug up? Is it right to post that here if she hasn't? Isn't that an invasion of her privacy?

 

No, the link she posted listed HIS age as 34. With his age, his town, his occupation.