mlh5046 Posted March 16, 2009 Posted March 16, 2009 If they broke your heart once, and even if you yourself made some mistakes nothing like cheating, can you trust them to not break your heart again if you got back together? Or can that initial trust never be substituted, once it is broken it is broken for good. Is a second go around a waste if you are not sure if you can trust them but still want to do it because of your feelings?
Truly Lost Posted March 16, 2009 Posted March 16, 2009 A second chance of a relationship with the person who broke your trust will not work out if the issue that split you two up is not thoroughly worked on and repaired. Both of you will have to commit to changing. The issue may not be repairable. Most everyone on here has thought about getting back together with their ex. I think it is apart of the healing process. My opinion is if someone cheated or lied, they will most likely end up doing it again. Do you want to risk going through this pain all over again? Thats the question you should be asking yourself.
EmperorR Posted March 16, 2009 Posted March 16, 2009 No I can't. Especially if someone cheated or lied to you, odds are they will do it again. The pain I had to go through recovery time HECK NO, no way would I go back to anyone who broke my trust.
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