Hurting. Posted March 15, 2009 Posted March 15, 2009 So, i have been split up with EX since october/november, and have had her on my mind loads until about 3/4 weeks ago, i've started liking someone else, been talking to her loads and having laughs etc. I really like this new girl, makes me laugh, feels like i've found a person i told myself i'd never find after my heartbreak with the EX. However, despite being really into her, i every now and again think about my ex, and i guess... kinda' miss her to an extent. I'm not totally sure if this new girl is even into me, but i've had signs as in she's been moving close to me, making constant conversation, laughing alot, and i notice her friends claiming she likes someone alot on her facebook. But anyway, If things progress, would it be fair on her, (and even myself!) to date her? Even with the EX at the back of my mind still, will it ruin the relationship? Should i tell her i still think about my EX but like her loads? I don't want to turn her away from me, think the world of her! Help ?
kdark Posted March 15, 2009 Posted March 15, 2009 You can never be ready to start dating after a brutal break up, only willing to start dating.
yeex Posted March 15, 2009 Posted March 15, 2009 man give it a try, it may be just what you need in order to get your ex off your mind. Just go on dates and have fun and take it slow. Take it slow is the key. If you start weirding out over your ex for some reason, then since you took it slow with a new girl, it should not hurt her as much if you have to pull back. I would not let memories of my ex prohibit me from getting on with my life.
missdependant Posted March 16, 2009 Posted March 16, 2009 take it slow. Don't jump into a relationship. Just date for a while. If and when you feel like you've completely moved on from your ex.. move into an actual relationship with the new girl. There is a difference between dating and a relationship.
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