JadedHeart Posted March 15, 2009 Posted March 15, 2009 Has anyone ever had a relapse or a dream that you broke NC with your ex then felt just as bad as if you did it in real life? My ex dumped me two months ago, then came knocking at my door the next day! I foolishly took her back only to have her dump me less than two weeks later. Then she proceeded to drag it out for another three weeks telling me all the same BS such as I miss you, I wish you were here with me, but I felt it was the right thing to do. Or I dreamt about you, I wish you were here to hold me, I can't sleep without you by my side, my heart says yes but my mind says no, so I had to do it. Don't you hate it when they give you false hope and pull your strings? I mean what's the point of saying those things? It's almost as if they enjoy the drama... Anyways I woke up in a clammy sweat because in my dream she text me and I responded and we started talking, but when I woke up I felt just as crummy as the other times I did break no contact with her in real life. This so happened just as I felt I was over her. She no longer plagued my mind 24/7, I was finally able to sleep at night, and focus on my studies. Does anyone else have these sudden relapses out of the blue just when you feel you're about over her?
trying123 Posted March 22, 2009 Posted March 22, 2009 The dreams, there is always the dreams, Every time I have gotten out of a long term relationship I have the dreams were everything is better I honestly believe that it is just the way for the mind to heal after a loss, but it is the worst part of the break up
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