Babysunshine Posted March 15, 2009 Posted March 15, 2009 If your not digging her/him.How do you go about telling someone that?
SoulSearch_CO Posted March 15, 2009 Posted March 15, 2009 Last time I had to deal with this, I just told the guy I didn't think it would work between us. Easy peasy.
BobSacamento Posted March 15, 2009 Posted March 15, 2009 My strategy is to leave it as open as possible to mutual rejection. If that makes any sense.
climbergirl Posted March 15, 2009 Posted March 15, 2009 My strategy is to leave it as open as possible to mutual rejection. If that makes any sense. Please explain. I have the same question as the OP. What if you have an awesome time with a person but just don't have that physical attraction?
BobSacamento Posted March 16, 2009 Posted March 16, 2009 Please explain. I have the same question as the OP. What if you have an awesome time with a person but just don't have that physical attraction? Be like "Hey I really enjoyed our time last night but I don't know about you but I didn't really feel a connection you know?" Then the other person can be like "Yes I feel the same way, no spark, no blah blah blah"
OpenBook Posted March 16, 2009 Posted March 16, 2009 I agree. Somehow let him/her know that there's nothing wrong with him/her... you're just not "feeling it."
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