justcash Posted October 9, 2003 Posted October 9, 2003 Met this stunning girl at a club, got her number, took her on a date before she went back to college same week, liked her so much, travelled to see her at weekends and stay with her. Our relationship took off great, lot's of fun, really compatible and spent more time at her stundent accomadtion as time got on, only 1 upset when i looked in her diary and noticed she'd had quit a few short relationships that overlapped, so i wanted out, but i stayed and give her my all, gifts, flowers, etc During this time i had to tell her i was expecting 3 months prison, she said she'd wait as she'd taken so long to find me, i got 7 months prison, she vowed to stick with me as i got longer than expected, she was hurt, ran from court crying, very upset for a week or so, i had visits, letters off her regularly, only ! upset on a vist when i questioned if she could manage to wait, but apart from that, it got on ok. After 9 weeks inside i phone her on a sunday after her night out, i did't expect her to stay in she only 19, me 33, and she was odd on the phone little to say and no "i love you" after the call, so i sence the worst, call her back and end it with her, i wait for a few days for a responce, nothing so i call her, she said we'd finished etc I ask her back then she admit's she "went with someone" at her mates house, just a kiss, she cries saying she can't cope, loves me to bits but doesn't know if could wait for me, hadn't had sex for almost two months, was lonely etc I write her a letter saying how betrayed and cheated and humiliated i felt as we'd not argued and i thought she loved me, a letter to show how decieved i felt. I call her next day no answer, then the next, and she'd decided to wait for me after a long think on the previous day, but she had a letter for me to read first, when i got it it said she'd seen the guy twice during the week and spoke on phone etc, and if i was around it would never have happened, her mates were telling her to leave me etc So we were back together and all ok, i get out we have a few argument until i find out from her who the guy is , no one i know, but she also tell's me it's his house she went back to on the night not her mates, but she's still adamant nothing happened, and that she wasn't cheating because i'd finished with her. the just stayed up all night watching MTV, i get hold of the guy he says they both fell asleep. I'm still with the girl, we get on great, but it drives me crazy to think of what really happened, and should i get rid of her, as this anger doesn't seem to go away, can't understand if she loved me or just came back to me after what she realised she'd done to me?
VASH THE STAMPEDE Posted October 9, 2003 Posted October 9, 2003 YET, another familiar post. I really think you should move on, shes cheated on you once .she'll do it again and again.Its just a vicious cycle that continues as long as she wants to. Didn't you post this last week????
innocent Posted October 9, 2003 Posted October 9, 2003 I think that if you really see this relationship growing, and being with her in the future, and being happy then yes, go on with it But if you just see you all fighting and her lying and cheating, then end it now, because it will just be so much more of that in the future...because she is alot younger than you she may not be as mature as you in your relationship I hope everything works out for the best good luck with your decision, I'm sorry I wish that I could help you out more than this but that's all the advice I have got...GOOD LUCK
BrokenHearted05 Posted August 4, 2004 Posted August 4, 2004 Well my husband is in South Carolina. Here's the deal. We moved there, and nothing was going right for us ... nothing! Because he would be working so much, he wanted me to come home and stay with family members, just to visit. While I was home, more went wrong there, and we decided just for him to pack up and come here to me. Well, today he was supposed to be on his way, and he calls me hours before I thought he would be here, and tells me that he didn't leave yet. When I asked why, he said it was because he hasn't been honest about things. I didn't know what he was talking about, but it was that he hasn't been working as much as he says, and he doesn't have money to make it. Number two, he slept with some girl from a bar on Saturday. (He said he was somewhere else.) Mind you, we have been together for two years and three months, and married for three months, (the fifth is our three month anniversary) and we have a beautiful baby girl (11 months). This man was supposed to love me. Meaning we have our problems but I NEVER thought he would do this. I thought he loved me, and to make things worse, tomorrow is my birthday. Someone help me. What do I do? I am so broken-hearted, and the thing is I COULD NOT WAIT for him to come home so we could get our life back on track. What do I do??? Forgive and forget, or hire a lawyer ASAP?
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