SoulSearch_CO Posted March 15, 2009 Posted March 15, 2009 I don't see how he could be considered gay if he's shooting his rocks off in his pants just sitting next to you (whom I would assume are a woman?). He just sounds incredibly socially awkward. Good luck to the guy. No, this one in particular I would not date. And I would find it incredibly odd to be that age and still a virgin. It would make me wonder WHY...and I think you've answered that question for this particular case.
Author Cherished Posted March 15, 2009 Author Posted March 15, 2009 I was just wondering. I saw a lot of similar questions posted. I guess I thought a repressed gay person might get off from just being around a person of any kind? But yeah, you're probably right. Thanks for your insight. I guess I was wondering is it normal to be that age and a virgin without it having to do with strict religious reasons.
marlena Posted March 15, 2009 Posted March 15, 2009 Nope.. I wouldn't ... there is a reason why this guy never had sex... He has probably never attracted a woman... IMO.. not enough anyway to get her in bed.. poor guy. He should call an escort.. and sc*rew his head off. This is spot-on. There is a reason for this and I am not quite sure if it has to do with his looks only. It sounds to be like this person has tremendous psychological issues. Maybe that's why he is constantly being rejected. No, too creepy, not normal. Can you imagine how much pent-up frustration this person has? What would happen if one day he were to unleish 37 years of surpressed anger onto a woman who had sex with him and then jilted him? Sacry stuff IMO. If I were you, I'd stay away. You may see him as a friend but he certainly doesn't.
I'm Joe Posted March 15, 2009 Posted March 15, 2009 This actually has me worried a bit... I am a 24 year old virgin.... if I maintain my Solitude and virginity am I destined to become a stalking weirdo? I have been holding onto normality so well.
Bells Posted March 15, 2009 Posted March 15, 2009 This actually has me worried a bit... I am a 24 year old virgin.... if I maintain my Solitude and virginity am I destined to become a stalking weirdo? I have been holding onto normality so well. Personally, in this day and age, don't worry about it, in fact, I think him being a virgin should be considered more of a virtue by some and probably even appreciated. (esp with the scary diseases out there you can catch including the ones you can even catch with a condom.) People seem to place too much emphasis on sex these days. And seems people just assume too much about a guy like this, like "He must be gay" or " there's something wrong with him".
BlueEyedGirl Posted March 15, 2009 Posted March 15, 2009 He confided in me that just sitting by me on the couch makes him ejaculate in his pants. This alone would freak me out.
Bells Posted March 15, 2009 Posted March 15, 2009 This alone would freak me out. Yeah, Ditto on this remark. Why would he say this out of the blue, is beyond me.
Bells Posted March 15, 2009 Posted March 15, 2009 All guys who work in comic shops are virgins. Negative....I personally know a married man that's a comic shop Part -OWNER...not sure if that's the same. He's partnered with someone that runs the shop (not his wife)
Surfer Dude Posted March 15, 2009 Posted March 15, 2009 Don't pity him... it's his own fault for being in that state. He's most likely an overly shy, negative, obsessive, emotionally messed up unstable person. Anyone can get laid if they put in some effort, go out and meet people. I find it preposterous that some guys have the nerve to ask women to pity fck them. Disgusting.
Author Cherished Posted March 15, 2009 Author Posted March 15, 2009 That's another thing. When we first met, he said he owned the shop. In a later talk, he let it slip that his parents actually own the shop and he "runs" it. I thought wow, low self-confidence there, he even lies about his job. I wasn't really considering pity f**king him. The "ejaculation" talk was when he was telling me about the woman who stopped contact with him, and I asked him if he kissed her, and he admitted no, he hadn't even kissed a woman before and then he got into the sex aspect of how little experience he has. It was an opening up moment, he needed someone to talk to because I think he knows he's so extremely unhappy. But well, nothing else to say about all this anymore because I'm not answering his calls, emails, etc. because I don't want to lead him on and put him into another deep depressive state like happened before with his other female friend. Negative....I personally know a married man that's a comic shop Part -OWNER...not sure if that's the same. He's partnered with someone that runs the shop (not his wife)
Holding-On Posted March 15, 2009 Posted March 15, 2009 This actually has me worried a bit... I am a 24 year old virgin.... if I maintain my Solitude and virginity am I destined to become a stalking weirdo? I have been holding onto normality so well. Nah... don't worry about it. I was a virgin in my twenties too. The issues with this particular fellow seem to be his emotional neuroses. I had sex with a 24 year old virgin once. Second best sex I ever had. but thank you for your second sentence... I laughed out loud at that. On a more serious note I think it is fine to wait and have your first sexual encounter mean something to you than just lose your virginity so that you can say you lost it.
Surfer Dude Posted March 15, 2009 Posted March 15, 2009 Reminds me of George Constanza for some reason....
Lucky_One Posted March 15, 2009 Posted March 15, 2009 Yeah, Ditto on this remark. Why would he say this out of the blue, is beyond me. I wouldn't admit to a therapist, much less to a woman that I want to get into bed.
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