Cherished Posted March 15, 2009 Posted March 15, 2009 I actually am friends with a guy who is a 37 year old virgin. This is not because of religious purposes or because he is waiting for Ms. Right....he is dying to lose his virginity but it just hasn't happened yet. He says it's because of his "career" but this is not true. He works in comic book shop his parents' own. He is very interested in me, but I am not attracted. He confided in me that just sitting by me on the couch makes him ejaculate in his pants. He's not a BAD looking guy, but I'm just not interested in that way, but I do enjoy going to movies, etc. I'm going to have to stop hanging out with him. But...he is so laden with emotional issues that I would never date him, even if attraction was there. I can't even have enough attraction for him for a pity f**k, poor guy.
Alan430 Posted March 15, 2009 Posted March 15, 2009 I can't even have enough attraction for him for a pity f**k, poor guy. I thought those were a myth along with Unicorns and leprechauns! If they are real how do i get one? I would date a 37 year old virgin female if i could find one that i was attracted to. But i think the man has to know how to work some magic in the bed room, or the woman will be left unsatisfied.
burning 4 revenge Posted March 15, 2009 Posted March 15, 2009 Jesus Christ would have been a 37 year old virgin if he had lived four more boring sexless years
thegoodlife Posted March 15, 2009 Posted March 15, 2009 If I were closer to that age and the attraction and connection was there, of course I would date that person. It would be no different to me than dating someone who's not a virgin. BUT, given what you said about this guy in particular, with the emotional issues and all that then I wouldn't go down that road.
Author Cherished Posted March 15, 2009 Author Posted March 15, 2009 Jesus Christ would have been a 37 year old virgin if he had lived four more boring sexless years Yah but this guy isn't a virgin due to religious reasons, though.
burning 4 revenge Posted March 15, 2009 Posted March 15, 2009 Yah but this guy isn't a virgin due to religious reasons, though. what makes you think jesus was religious?
Alan430 Posted March 15, 2009 Posted March 15, 2009 Where are you at? For one of those, doesnt matter ill come to you.
Lizzie60 Posted March 15, 2009 Posted March 15, 2009 I actually am friends with a guy who is a 37 year old virgin. This is not because of religious purposes or because he is waiting for Ms. Right....he is dying to lose his virginity but it just hasn't happened yet. He says it's because of his "career" but this is not true. He works in comic book shop his parents' own. He is very interested in me, but I am not attracted. He confided in me that just sitting by me on the couch makes him ejaculate in his pants. He's not a BAD looking guy, but I'm just not interested in that way, but I do enjoy going to movies, etc. I'm going to have to stop hanging out with him. But...he is so laden with emotional issues that I would never date him, even if attraction was there. I can't even have enough attraction for him for a pity f**k, poor guy. Nope.. I wouldn't ... there is a reason why this guy never had sex... He has probably never attracted a woman... IMO.. not enough anyway to get her in bed.. poor guy. He should call an escort.. and sc*rew his head off..
Dumbledore Posted March 15, 2009 Posted March 15, 2009 He works in comic book shop his parents' own. Are you sure that you're not making this up? Also, you have an extra apostrophe in there - what's that about?
Author Cherished Posted March 15, 2009 Author Posted March 15, 2009 Are you sure that you're not making this up? Also, you have an extra apostrophe in there - what's that about? Excuse me for the typo. Oops. Anyhoo, why is it so outrageous that he works in a shop that his parents own? He does basically run it, but his parents actually own it. I don't think it would be appropriate to post the name of the shop he works at, it would be identified as he would.
Alan430 Posted March 15, 2009 Posted March 15, 2009 Nope.. I wouldn't ... there is a reason why this guy never had sex... He has probably never attracted a woman... IMO.. not enough anyway to get her in bed.. poor guy. He should call an escort.. and sc*rew his head off.. That just reminding me about a guy i grow up near. He always kinda taged along and when we graduated he joined the navy. I heard from his sister that he had finally lost his virginity to a hooker somewhere in asia. How sad, this guy was extremely quiet and eventually developed alot of self esteem issues. This guy is probably bursting with self esteem problems. Dont even do it out of pity cause if you do, he is going to become a stalker. 37 and works at a comic book store, and you wonder why he is a virgin.
Author Cherished Posted March 15, 2009 Author Posted March 15, 2009 Actually this is right on target, he is kind of a stalker type. When I first met him, he was getting over a woman who he had been obsessing over for a year, but who had told him soon after they met (via match.com) that she didn't feel romantic and just wanted to be friends. But he kept pursuing anyway. Finally she cut off all contact and this lead him into a depression in which he would barely leave his apartment and lost 25 pounds in a month. When I met him, he was just able to get out of the hosue. Luckily his mom was able to run the shop. He told me all this the first time I met him (set up through a coworker). So I had to tell him the same thing, be upfront with him right off. He often wants to get together and gets very upset if I turn him down. Poor guy. I actually did suggest he go to Vegas and get a hooker but he got mad at me for suggesting this.
Alan430 Posted March 15, 2009 Posted March 15, 2009 Actually this is right on target, he is kind of a stalker type. When I first met him, he was getting over a woman who he had been obsessing over for a year, but who had told him soon after they met (via match.com) that she didn't feel romantic and just wanted to be friends. But he kept pursuing anyway. Finally she cut off all contact and this lead him into a depression in which he would barely leave his apartment and lost 25 pounds in a month. When I met him, he was just able to get out of the hosue. Luckily his mom was able to run the shop. He told me all this the first time I met him (set up through a coworker). So I had to tell him the same thing, be upfront with him right off. He often wants to get together and gets very upset if I turn him down. Poor guy. I actually did suggest he go to Vegas and get a hooker but he got mad at me for suggesting this. Suggest to him that he puts down spiderman issue #223 and pick up some self improvement books on dating and woman. After my seperation i began reading alot of them and its amazing how much i really didnt know. its a males instink to push and try to fix it. We are programed to think if we try hard enough we can make it happen.
carhill Posted March 15, 2009 Posted March 15, 2009 He confided in me that just sitting by me on the couch makes him ejaculate in his pants. So, he's shy too 1
Dumbledore Posted March 15, 2009 Posted March 15, 2009 How did you meet this guy? Excellent question! I guess she must be into comics.
Author Cherished Posted March 15, 2009 Author Posted March 15, 2009 Well, we have become friends and I am a really nice person that people open up to for some reason. I did notice that once time he was over at my house watching a DVD and he got up really suddenly and ran to the restroom. So....
Alan430 Posted March 15, 2009 Posted March 15, 2009 How did you meet this guy? She said a blind date as a setup from a co-worker.
Author Cherished Posted March 15, 2009 Author Posted March 15, 2009 How did you meet this guy? I was set up by one of my colleagues who is an acquaintance.
Storyrider Posted March 15, 2009 Posted March 15, 2009 Why did your friend think you'd be a good match?
Author Cherished Posted March 15, 2009 Author Posted March 15, 2009 Excellent question! I guess she must be into comics.That wouldn't be really outrageous if I had stepped into the shop. It's downtown. I sometimes step into shops when I am out window shopping, such as I don't go biking a lot but I have stepped into biking shops out of curiosity and it looked like a nice place to browse. I don't get your questioning, Dumbledore. Do you ever get out of the house and walk into shops occasionally? Dude, you need to get out more.
Author Cherished Posted March 15, 2009 Author Posted March 15, 2009 Why did your friend think you'd be a good match? I don't think he realized his friend had all those issues. He didn't know the guy THAT well, just from going to the shop and chatting. They are not friends, just know each other from the shop.
Dumbledore Posted March 15, 2009 Posted March 15, 2009 I did notice that once time he was over at my house watching a DVD and he got up really suddenly and ran to the restroom. So.... I hope you thanked him for coming.
Author Cherished Posted March 15, 2009 Author Posted March 15, 2009 You are a funny guy. It did occur to me that he could be gay and denying his sexuality. That would be tough.
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