SlightlyCrazy Posted March 14, 2009 Posted March 14, 2009 Just registered tonight; I'm the cousin that is mentioned at the start of this thread. It's been an interesting read but there's nothing there that I didn't know already - except that it wasn't Vegas (it was Paris, France) and also that it happened more than once... first time was November, the second was December. I'm still trying to get my head around the multitude of issues that the situation has raised, even though I've been trying to deal with things for over three months now (I found out about this in December) I'm sure if I went into details that it would all sound like a work of fiction. A lot of the time I feel lost, confused, hurt, angry and more... but above all that, I really believe that my marriage can work... for me I think the real hurt stems from lies, deceit and the fact that the foundation for trust has been shaken. Anyways, if I manage to talk about my situation in a way that doesn't sound too outlandish or incredulous then advice might be welcome. I suppose more than anything else I just need to sound off a bit. Counselling from a professional psychologist has been recommended and I truly believe that it is a road I must go down if I'm to avoid going out of my mind. Well it's nearly 23:30 here and I have to get the youngest of my two children up to bed - the eldest flaked out nearly four hours ago. Consider this my "hello" to the forums!
Bryanp Posted March 15, 2009 Posted March 15, 2009 Is the partner you are currently with a man or a woman?
Author SlightlyCrazy Posted March 15, 2009 Author Posted March 15, 2009 Bryan, My partner is my wife, and my cousin is also female - I'm not sure what spin that puts on things from your perspective 'cause whichever way you slice it, it's messy.
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