ledzeppelinfreak Posted March 14, 2009 Posted March 14, 2009 Ok so me and my ex have been together for 3 months and we were totally in love. But last week he started caring less and less about our relationship. He started hanging out with his best buddy all the time. Whenever I hung out with him, his buddy was there too. I mean I was ok with it, but he started acting differently because his friend was there. And he didn't care about me as much or took things seriously. I don't know why he did this. But I was getting sick of it and wanted to take a break. So when me and his buddy were alone, i told him that I wanted a break , and he said yeah that's a good idea, but don't break up with him. You guys are so good together (he's really supportive of our relationship). So when my ex came back, I told him what I wanted and he was pretending like nothing happened at all. It bugged me, he didn't even give me a final hug or kiss. He just tried to make it seem like there was nothing wrong. What's wrong with him. Did everything we had together mean nothing at all to him?
Touche Posted March 14, 2009 Posted March 14, 2009 Sounds like maybe he was hurt. It was only a 3 month thing. Why not go out and date others? Doesn't sound like you were soulmates since you wanted to go your separate way anyway. Just curious but how old are you guys...because you sound kind of young. I'm sure he has NO idea what you think he did wrong. Maybe it would have been better to talk to him first instead of just breaking it off because you were annoyed.
carhill Posted March 14, 2009 Posted March 14, 2009 OP, how long did you know your ex before getting together in a romantic sense?
LucreziaBorgia Posted March 14, 2009 Posted March 14, 2009 What do you two share that make you soul mates?
carhill Posted March 14, 2009 Posted March 14, 2009 Perhaps the OP can define what the phrase "soul mate" means to her. Here's some tips from my experiences: 1. Talk without speaking 2. Complete each other's thoughts 3. Instinctively know what the other is feeling (the emotion, not the thought) 4. Life events always seem in sync 5. No boundaries or awkwardness when together; seamless interaction, both emotional and physical 6. Timelessness. No boundary of time to the connection. It exists. Physical distance is irrelevant. 7. Peace. The soul and spirit is at peace when in the company of the other. Exactly the opposite of "butterflies" so typically voiced by those with professed romantic interest. Note that I didn't mention anything romantic at all in the above. OP, if he's "like your soul mate", regardless of your romantic potential, that connection will be there tomorrow, next week, next year, when you're old and frail. Or, really, is this just a young romance which has gone awry? Let us know
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