rlindzie Posted March 14, 2009 Posted March 14, 2009 I have a big mother problem. I hate to let it all hang out and put my family bizz out there but i need some advice. So here is my issue. I cant seem to get along with my mom for more than a month at a time ,one month we are good the next is hell. And on a daily basis she yells and screams about everything from the house to the pets. She has said countless times she hates comming home.And my sister and I do everything we can to please her, but nothing absolutly nothing works. We get into big fights and it just gets really akward to be around her and my sis too [bc my mom tells her everything]. Whenever I hang out with a bf or even a friend for any lenth of time she blows up at me. she yells ,screams and acusses me of sh/t . She calls me a slut and that im going nowhere in life and just rips me apart. It really hurts. I love her but i cant stand being treated like this. Im 19 and i want to move out and i really think she would be much happier if i did as well. I have tried everything and nothing works, she always resorts back to verbal attacks. I am getting depressed and i just cant do it anymore. Does anyone have a similar situation or advice? Im all ears.
TwinkletOes26 Posted March 15, 2009 Posted March 15, 2009 I have a big mother problem. I hate to let it all hang out and put my family bizz out there but i need some advice. So here is my issue. I cant seem to get along with my mom for more than a month at a time ,one month we are good the next is hell. And on a daily basis she yells and screams about everything from the house to the pets. She has said countless times she hates comming home.And my sister and I do everything we can to please her, but nothing absolutly nothing works. We get into big fights and it just gets really akward to be around her and my sis too [bc my mom tells her everything]. Whenever I hang out with a bf or even a friend for any lenth of time she blows up at me. she yells ,screams and acusses me of sh/t . She calls me a slut and that im going nowhere in life and just rips me apart. It really hurts. I love her but i cant stand being treated like this. Im 19 and i want to move out and i really think she would be much happier if i did as well. I have tried everything and nothing works, she always resorts back to verbal attacks. I am getting depressed and i just cant do it anymore. Does anyone have a similar situation or advice? Im all ears. move on campus if you are in college if not get a job and move(go to college online i wish i had lol) maybe ask your bf to be your roommate. Im sorry honey my mom does the same stuff.I jut graduated from college and i am looking for work. My mother is moody get verbally mean when she doesnt have her way. She is even trying to control where i go to hand in my resume...she is now angry that im gonna ask my grandma for some money to get interview clothing. So dont feel too bad you arent alone
Author rlindzie Posted March 16, 2009 Author Posted March 16, 2009 thanks, its nice to know im not alone lol, i think i will move out i am going to live with my bf when he comes back from iraq [he is in the army] bu untill them im gonna save untill i have enough to go. That is a good idea to do online classes. Jw how do you pay for your health care? that is one of my biggst concerns besides school.
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