Trialbyfire Posted March 15, 2009 Posted March 15, 2009 Yet he also seems to CRAVE to have someone care about him. What good is this craving, when fear dominates the ability to return? Btw, that's not usual for a CP. Carhill used the diabetic analogy of sugar craving. It's apt.
Author xenomaniac Posted March 16, 2009 Author Posted March 16, 2009 Wait, so you're saying that the fact that he does seem to enjoy my attentiveness doesn't synchronize with the typical CP "symptomology"? haha
Trialbyfire Posted March 16, 2009 Posted March 16, 2009 Wait, so you're saying that the fact that he does seem to enjoy my attentiveness doesn't synchronize with the typical CP "symptomology"? hahaHow did you manage to draw that conclusion from my comment? You stated that he craves someone to care about him. This is typical CP behaviour. Craving the attention and being able to handle a mature relationship, are two different things.
redant Posted March 16, 2009 Posted March 16, 2009 I hope that you can slow down and be able to step back observe if this man is sincere and just get to know him. I know how you feel try not to get swept away so soon. For me love isn't so much a feeling as it is an act, a trust that builds and grows?I think so
Author xenomaniac Posted March 16, 2009 Author Posted March 16, 2009 How did you manage to draw that conclusion from my comment? You stated that he craves someone to care about him. This is typical CP behaviour. Craving the attention and being able to handle a mature relationship, are two different things. Sorry, I must have misconstrued this bit: "Btw, that's not usual for a CP." I thought you meant it wasn't typical for a CP to crave that type of attentiveness. But I see what you mean now...
Trialbyfire Posted March 16, 2009 Posted March 16, 2009 Sorry, I must have misconstrued this bit: "Btw, that's not usual for a CP." I thought you meant it wasn't typical for a CP to crave that type of attentiveness. But I see what you mean now...Oh, my apologies. I should have said "Btw, that's not usual for a CP to be able to return." or "Btw, that's not unusual for a CP to crave attention.". This way, it couldn't have been construed in an ambiguous way.
Girlygirl1977 Posted April 3, 2009 Posted April 3, 2009 What is the latest here? I am curious about what is going on xenomaniac. I hope things are well.
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