mlh5046 Posted March 13, 2009 Posted March 13, 2009 My ex who dumped me after a 2 year relationship got me good. Happened back in January. Lots of confusing stuff, I basically know where shes going to be at times on campus, and on the weekends because we were really close and I have her class schedule and we have similar hangouts and so i purposely avoided those places, even to my inconvenience. Seeing her just would tear me up. But I am really feeling good now about things, the breakup gave me great insight into my mistakes and made me a better person. I still have feelings for her, I am doing so good now and I am really trying to get on. I want her to see I am doing awesome, lol maybe its wrong but i just want her to see I am more matured. Not tell her, just show her. She doesn't really contact me via phone, but whenever she sees me in person she always comes up to me to talk, any advice? I want to be nice yet show I really do not need her to value my own self. That was my problem after the breakup. So short convo, like hi and bye? or A 2 minute convo to maybe try to get her to laugh or something?
alphamale Posted March 13, 2009 Posted March 13, 2009 just make eye contact, smile and wave from afar and move on...no conversations or contact. you've acknowledged her existence and shown you're not intimidated and you'll also show her you don't give a damn.
Beautiful Inside Posted March 13, 2009 Posted March 13, 2009 honestly coming from a girl deep down even if she was the one to choose to go seperate ways it will still hurt her to c you over her already so id just act like your over it and your happy moved on etc....act like everything is fabulous lol trust me itll ****in ruin her day lol she'll even try to hang out with you i bet....
Beautiful Inside Posted March 13, 2009 Posted March 13, 2009 a girl is similar to how guys work in that aspect to where their selfish too they dont want their ex who they dumped to move on already how could they omg ....they start thinking like omg i should get back with them they cant be over me!!!
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