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Ladies: Do you like your men older than you? or does it even matter?


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I have never dated anyone older than 30. I'm 27 now single and thinking to do my hunting in the 30+ male market. lol :laugh:

 

OMG, the 30+ market rocks. You'd be a fool not to. Seriously.

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It's always been older for me. I never had any attraction to younger guys. My first real boyfriend was 10 years older (18 and 28) and my ex-husband was 19 years older.

 

My H is actually the only man I've been seriously involved with who is as close to my own age as he is (7 years.)

 

If God forbid I ever had to be single and dating again, I would consider (for the first time in my life ever) going younger. I think I wouldn't go younger than 35 or so. Thirty-five would be the absolute youngest I'd go. No offense but men younger than that usually hold no appeal to me.

 

You cant make an exception?

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Who me?

 

As young as possible.. legal age of course.. :p my youngest, now, is 25... which is 31 years younger than me. But, in general, the average is about 15-18 years younger than me.

 

God bless you

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It must be challenging for men in their thirties to find a woman who's willing to date them, nvm marriage. If women do, it's for their money. I mean, why else would they want a wrinkly man?

 

Youre being sarcastic, right?

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yeah, 'cause 24 year olds are just so old!:laugh:

 

No offense but at my age, a 19 year old and a 24 year old are all the same. Their brains aren't even fully developed.

 

exactly Touche you are alright with me

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I have never dated anyone older than 30. I'm 27 now single and thinking to do my hunting in the 30+ male market. lol :laugh:

 

why not? you'll see what youve been missing all along girl

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Who me?

 

As young as possible.. legal age of course.. :p my youngest, now, is 25... which is 31 years younger than me. But, in general, the average is about 15-18 years younger than me.

 

Let's go, baby :love:!

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You cant make an exception?

 

Sorry, darlin'..no can do. ;)

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Doesn't matter.

Attitude, basic good physical condition, chemistry. That matters.

But I am not looking for a long term relationship beyond my husband.

If I was thinking long term then younger definitely.

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I am not attracted to men very much older than me. And, the older I get (I am 35 now) the worse it is. It is a rare day that I see a man over 40 that I think is hot. Unless we are talking about movie stars, but, you don't really see guys like that in my reality.

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why not? you'll see what youve been missing all along girl

 

I know ... nothing is too late. :laugh: I have been wasting my time way too long with someone whose mind at 10 yo trapped in a 26 yo body.

 

30+ guys are sexy! :love:

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Edit: Personally I will not date someone who is closer to my parent's age. So over 39 is a no no to me.

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I'm not the nurturer type so I don't plan on being a 'mom' to my bf. Sooo I go for older men but not more than 10 years older.

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Well when I was in my 20's I dated guys 2 to 3 years older than me. I was 29 when I divorced and started dating guys 5-7 years younger until I met my present H who is 7 years younger than me. I like younger men I guess because when I was 18 I was dating a 16 yo.

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Definitely older. Right now I am 7 yrs younger than my guy. :D

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I always liked younger girls myself but I realized that I cannot 'date' (as in consistently go out with) a girl younger than 25. It seems most of the girls younger than 25 (im 31) are still in college party mode, and quite frankly are annoying.

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Chris there's plenty of girls that are out of party mode at that age. Just keep looking. I'm 21, and my guy is 28. I'm definitely out of party mode but then again the military has forced me to grow up. Keep looking. It's not impossible.

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Youre being sarcastic, right?

At this point, my sarcasm knows no bounds...

 

I always liked younger girls myself but I realized that I cannot 'date' (as in consistently go out with) a girl younger than 25. It seems most of the girls younger than 25 (im 31) are still in college party mode, and quite frankly are annoying.

You challenge me on my "purported" preferences and then post this? That's ironical, to say the least.

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Honestly I'm a little surprised at the number of women who openly state their preference for a more senior partner; given the responses to some other more militant threads I'd expected the preference it to be more covert.

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At this point, my sarcasm knows no bounds...

 

 

You challenge me on my "purported" preferences and then post this? That's ironical, to say the least.

 

two completely different things.

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