he doesnt respect my feelings about the strip club

[JackJack]

maybe i over exaggerated about the excitement,i was in the car when he was telling his friend about it(who was also in the car).i dont think that he is getting them.i know he finds me sexually attractive.if he didnt he wouldnt want to have sex with me.sometimes he wants to when i dont want to.he's never been to a strip club by the way.4 the most part he always tells me where he is and what he is doing. i just think that men in relationships should go to strip clubs.i feel that it is 4 single men.or men who cant get any. what do u think??

 

You've been given advice on what people here think....what matters the most, is what YOU think. However, he sounds pretty adament about going, regardless of what you say or how you feel.

[angie2443]

You've been given advice on what people here think....what matters the most, is what YOU think. .

 

This is the only thing that you need to know. You could get a thousand replies all saying that what your boyfriend is doing is fine and it shouldn't bother you. At the end of the day, if it bothers you, it bothers you and you have to decide if the relationship is worth it.

 

There's many more fish in the sea. Maybe you just need to branch out and date other men to see what makes you happy.

 

Have you dated many other men? Have they been simular to your currant boyfriend?

[hollisterbaby]

no,ive never dated anyone like him and its my first serious relationship.i feel like he is my soulmate.we just have so much history 2gether,even before we started dating we had history.

[Lucky_One]

This is why I am thankful I don't believe in soulmates!

 

Who wants to have a soulmate who would rather spend time with a buddy than with me, and who gets excited over $20 lapdances!

[hollisterbaby]

yeah you are right.now the whole buddy thing is getting wierder,when i asked him if he can come and hang out with me and his childhood best friend(who is also kinda mad that my bf for not hangin with him) i said can u leave jon's side for one day(that's the friend)he said no and got really defensive.

[angie2443]

Before you decide this guy is your soul mate, why not date some other men? You might find one who is closer to bieng your soul mate than this guy.

 

You sound young. I get the feeling you haven't experienced things much. I think it's a good idea to explore the world a bit, other guys included, before getting into a serious relationship with someone. Just something to think about:).

[hollisterbaby]

thats what my cousin is telling me.oh and im 19 by the way.

[angie2443]

You're very young! Go have some fun. Date a variety of guys, not the same type of guy over and over. The more you explore out there, the more you'll find that not all guys are the same and you'll probably find someone who is more of a "soul mate" than this guy. Good luck.