420honey Posted March 12, 2009 Posted March 12, 2009 I was pleasantly surprised today...I started a thread almost a week ago about a man that I'd been seeing and coming clean to him about my using medical marijuana. He wasn't okay with it at first...but now he's change his mind. He called me today and let me know that he hasn't been able to stop thinking about me and felt that he was being shallow and would like me to be his girlfriend *blushes*. My best friend clued him in as to why I use pot. Said he didn't tell him much, but that he touched lightly on the subject. He would like to talk more about it when we have some privacy His kids have asked about me which makes me very happy (their mother abandoned them, so he raises them alone). He has asked that I remain secretive about it to his children which I obviously have no problem with. I would never take it around them, EVER in my life anyway. I am going to his house this tomorrow night to watch a movie with him and his kids, then camping with them this weekend for spring break and then he would like me to talk to him about my past with him. I've never opened up to anyone but a counselor about it, so I'm nervous. I don't really know how honest I should be or how much I should tell him? I really like him, but I don't want to seem like some poor, pathetic victim. Anyway, thank you all for your advice on the last thread. I knew that honesty would be the best policy, but it helped to figure out how exactly to tell him. I think that going about it lightly was the safest way so that he would have time to think about it. Any other thoughts would be great and thanks again. I know not everyone approves of what I do, and that's okay. We will all have our differences, especially between politics regarding drugs and alcohol. But I do thank everyone for being honest.
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