becci-lee Posted March 12, 2009 Posted March 12, 2009 My ex had been dating this 18 yr old. he is 24 aand i am 21, he left me for 2 yrs, with this chick. he basically stoppd talking and trying to see his daughter and pretending me and Jersey(my daughter) dont exist, cuz aparently it was easier for him. he wouldnt speak to me, blockd me on facebook and disappeard for a year, finally i used this guy's facebook to look him up and msg him, and he replied, we have been making small talk back and forth for a cuple of weeks now, first time talking in over a year and a half, now i see on his facebook that he is single, i want him back., we have both changed SOO much, he has been MINE for 7 years out of my life =, not to mention he's my baby's daddy, HOW TO I EVEN ATTEMPT to make him want me?? HELP i MUST move QUICK before he gets back to gether with that chick.. las time, we broke up for 4 mnths and i tried EVERYTHING, and then finally i got over him and started dating someone else and he wanted me back immediately!! so id have to try something similar or sumthin, but we are not childrent anymore, HELP
Viking Posted March 12, 2009 Posted March 12, 2009 Is he paying child support by any chance? Personally, just collect the child support check and find someone interested in being with you who doesn't mind a child. Its tough, that's for sure as you probably will feel as though your child ("Jersey", that's a type of cow you know) is a burden to your social life. Buuuuut, since you made a grown up decision to have a kid, you're going to have to suck it up and not whine when people don't want to date a young single mom. He probably feels trapped by you given the child that you two have.
SoulSearch_CO Posted March 12, 2009 Posted March 12, 2009 Uh...do you want your ex or the hard-to-get guy? I'm confused.
dreamergrl Posted March 12, 2009 Posted March 12, 2009 He doesn't sound like a real stand up guy. He disappeared from you and his daughter. There is something wrong with that. I wouldn't take him back, or want him back. He's not stepping up to his responsibilities.
Untouchable_Fire Posted March 12, 2009 Posted March 12, 2009 He doesn't sound like a real stand up guy. He disappeared from you and his daughter. There is something wrong with that. I wouldn't take him back, or want him back. He's not stepping up to his responsibilities. I totally agree with DG. You want him back, but I do not believe that is a healthy choice for you or Jersey. She needs to see you with someone who loves you... not getting jerked around.
Author becci-lee Posted March 12, 2009 Author Posted March 12, 2009 ya you guys are right, when u put it that way, its just that we were kids back then, now we are adults...
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