BodaciousBunny Posted October 9, 2003 Posted October 9, 2003 So I told him I was coming over to get my things, and he said that was fine. So I ring the door bell and he comes to the door and opens it, he smiles at me and then says...you have a key. To which I replied, yeah but not on me. So we talk a while, and then I get my things. He wanted to show me something he's been working on so I put my things down. I gave him this bad of chocolate I got him...he loves chocolate. So then he looked at me and noticed I cut my bangs, he said it made me llok older and told me that I looked very nice. We were then standing there starring at eachother and he moves close to me and just hugged me...he held onto me for a long time and rubbed my back. And then I looked at him and touched his face, to which he kissed my hand. Then came closer and held me again for a long time...he then said well I'll see you soon. And I left...he let me out gently and stood by the door for a while. He smiled a lot, seemed happy to see me...and seemed like he missed me. *sigh*
Nostalghia Posted October 9, 2003 Posted October 9, 2003 Uh ....... is that it? Where's the "between the sheets" twist?!
Author BodaciousBunny Posted October 9, 2003 Author Posted October 9, 2003 hello people!!??? input...what do you think of the situation now?
Iamhappy Posted October 9, 2003 Posted October 9, 2003 Sweetie, I'm sorry to be so harsh, but the horse is dead and you need to stop beating it.
Layla Posted October 9, 2003 Posted October 9, 2003 I think that he still cares about you but doesn't love you anymore :-/ Sorry Especially that rubbing your back kind of thing is something we do to a friend who needs some consoling. I think that he truly hates the fact that he is hurting you! But believe me, if he wanted you back he would fight for you and not risk the danger of letting you walk away and eventually find someone new. He seems to be a nice person but let him go.
jenny Posted October 9, 2003 Posted October 9, 2003 you've got a choice now. you can either choose to be a victim and continue suffering or you can move on. make the strong choice, sweetie, he might miss you but you're not getting him back.
moimeme Posted October 9, 2003 Posted October 9, 2003 A. There is this much evidence that he does not want to continue the relationship: ____________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ B. There is this much evidence that he still cares: __ You choose to look at B and ignore A, despite everything that he tells you and we have told you. This is foolishness and will only lead to pain.
Author BodaciousBunny Posted October 10, 2003 Author Posted October 10, 2003 But the whole key thing... really what it meant is you have a key, you're welcomed anytime...this is your place as well.
jenny Posted October 10, 2003 Posted October 10, 2003 if you choose to be delusional, there is nothing we can do to help you. we only have the evidence you gave us, but that is enough to convince all that this guy doesn't really care - he's nice, but he's done. are you so much a victim that you can't move on to guys who will appreaciate you?
Author BodaciousBunny Posted October 10, 2003 Author Posted October 10, 2003 but what I said id true...even other people told me. It shows some sign of hope, or that he still does want me there.
jenny Posted October 10, 2003 Posted October 10, 2003 hmm let me rephrase - why do you want to keep hope? if there is a slim chance, surely you don't value yourself so low as to cling on to a remote hope? it's just sad.
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