Evangallion Posted March 11, 2009 Posted March 11, 2009 I known a girl whom i had class with in my psychology course, but only knew her, never really chatted. One day we met at the cafeteria, and chatted. There fourth we've been on dates until i asked her to be my girlfriend- she accepted. We have been dating for about a week and a half, or so. I am really bothered because I have really fallen for her, but i don't know if i should let her acknowledge what I think of her. What is the best step? I wish she knew, but i wouldn't want to scare her away either.
bean1 Posted March 11, 2009 Posted March 11, 2009 You shouldn't be scared to tell your girlfriend what you really think!
Author Evangallion Posted March 11, 2009 Author Posted March 11, 2009 wouldn't that scare a bit? We've been dating for (lets just say) two weeks. And i'm falling for her
bean1 Posted March 11, 2009 Posted March 11, 2009 Perhaps it is too soon for a girlfriend label if you are scared to tell her. Are you concerned about telling her that you love her, or just that you are falling for her?
conehead Posted March 11, 2009 Posted March 11, 2009 Me falling in love with her. So sweet! If you love her, you can tell, BUT only if you are able to not expect her to say she loves you too in return. It's too early to expect that from her. Good luck!
Author Evangallion Posted March 11, 2009 Author Posted March 11, 2009 Thanks conehead. I want to tell her because i'm in U.S. Army and wouldn't want to leave with out telling her.
sand26 Posted March 11, 2009 Posted March 11, 2009 DON'T TELL HER! What is the harm in waiting. You have just gotten to know her a little bit, you won't see her complete self for months to come. You are young (obviously) and you should slow down and just see what happens. Real love and caring takes a long time to develop, this sounds like lust, or needy desperation.
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