xxscarredxx Posted March 11, 2009 Posted March 11, 2009 I just can't do it anymore. I prepared the most romantic evening for her last weekend, complete with a medium sized gift bag of thoughtful items.. a framed pic of us and flowers.. not to mention I prepared her favorite meal and wine. I took her out and paid for the entire evening. My mom doesn't like the fact that I'm a lesbian, and besides that, she really doesn't care for my (then) lady of choice. The last time I had talked to my mom was last month; she hung up on me when she learned that my girlfriend was over at my place. My mom knew that in January my gf jumped on me.. (so that's when my mom started to disapprove of her). Anywho, after a month of not talking to my mom again, she called last weekend.. the day after I did the romantic thing for my gf. When I answered my cell, I took the call in the other room. Apparently, it pissed my gf off. She played it off like it didn't, but in an email the next night, she told me that she felt like I was hiding her because I went in the other room to talk to my mother. I emailed her back and told her that I don't like to not talk to my mom for weeks and weeks at a time, so I went in the other room to catch up with her for a few moments. (Hell, I even made an excuse to get off the phone with mom so I could get back to her). My mom is sick and I at least want to answer the phone when she does decide to not be upset with me... I also wrote that from then on out I'd talk to my mom when she wasn't around. But after that I asked her if she could leave the issues between me and my mom up to me, because she was throwing up things in the email that were issues between me and my mom. She started getting angry with me thru the email, typing in all caps and saying, "Well, I hope you can find someone that'll figure out the dynamics of your relationship with you and your mom". And, she brought up the conversation of when I had asked her if she could not sleep in her street clothes when she went to bed with me, because she smelled heavy of smoke and alcohol from the bars, replying, "AND I DON'T HAVE TO SLEEP IN YOUR BED, AS I TAKE FROM YOUR MESSAGE, YOU THINK I STINK! WELL GO FIND SOMEONE THAT SMELLS LIKE FRESH FLOWERS...ETC" All I asked her was if she could bring pj's over and sleep in them, since everytime I asked her if she'd like something to sleep in of mine, she always said no. I don't sleep in my street clothes after a night out of being out on the town, and I'd like for her to do the same. So really, who's overreacting and blowing things out of proportion, me or her?
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