amythan Posted March 11, 2009 Posted March 11, 2009 Hi, I think i would need some advice on this one even if i do not know if there is anything i can do ! I use to work with this guy - different companies, countries and i am his client. He was always very sweet but not overly flirty. We know each other for two years now but we do not see each other often. He did things in the past which allowed me to think he was interested. One night he took my waist and asked me if there was anything he can do to make me stay one more day. I said no because i had a date ! He asked when i will be back to his town saying that he will take me out .. and some small things like that. We talk at least every week about holidays, work, friends, but never about dates. He is sweet and stays until late to answer my questions just because 'he does not want me to go worried home' ... This was the good part. Now the bad one. After telling me he would take me out when i was there ... he NEVER asked me to go out even if i told him i needed to know to scheduled other people .. WHY he changed his mind ? I got really confused. I saw him yesterday and i realized i was nervous as a teenager He was very nice but he said he was very busy and needed to be back to work .. I do not know if this is due to the big stress he is taking with his job or something else. Sometimes i think he was just being nice because i was his client and now business is slowing down he is less worried about me as a client .. Really i do not know what to thing ? If this was the case i will feel the most stupid person ever .. What do you think ? Is there anything i can do ? Thanks for your sincere advise.
Author amythan Posted March 11, 2009 Author Posted March 11, 2009 Anyone ? Yeah i am feeling a bit rejected, and it sucks because i really thought he liked me ... was i wrong all the time ??
rlindzie Posted March 11, 2009 Posted March 11, 2009 well i think you need to ask him on a date, be direct and go for it, and look on the bright side if he turns you down at least ou know for sure.
Luscis Posted March 12, 2009 Posted March 12, 2009 Ya, I would ask him out. Boy, as a guy it feels a little wierd writing that, anyway ask him out. It may be that he has met some one recently or he is stressed and just doesn't want to complicate things right now. Just ask and see.
socialight Posted March 12, 2009 Posted March 12, 2009 i would be extremely, extremely cautious of getting involved with any guy would consider dating his clients. For starters, it's bad business. Secondly, it he has done this, it is highly likely you will are neither the first, nor last, female client he has dated. This has "player" written all over it. Based on your limited statements, I advise you to not get involved with this man.
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