brooklyn123 Posted March 11, 2009 Posted March 11, 2009 heres the backstory: my ex and i dated for 3 years, he broke up with me exactly a year ago and we have been in contact ever since we broke up except for a little over a month right after it happened. we were in LC all through last summer and in the beginning of the fall we were together everyday and then it just stopped and we went back LC now since january we have been serious again, closest we have ever been since the break up. we see each other 5 days a week, if not more. we are exclusive with each other and have had the talk. he says he thinks we have a "thing" but doesnt feel the need to be back ina relationship because he doesnt see whats wrong with how we are now. i know he is sincere and he doesnt want to be single just for other girls. the last day we hung out, monday he said he was in love with me. he said he'll never find someone else like me and talks about the future with us all the time - kids, marriage, etc. i told him since were single im worried about losing him and he told me not to be. he left tueday for california for a family vacation and texts me everday while hes still out there. he told me that he'll be ready to be in a relationship probably in like 6 months. hes said he'll never be as comfortable or close to anyone like he is with me and i believe this. we have a one of a kind connection, its almost freaky the thing is, i would love to wait for him as long as we have this "thing" until hes ready. im so worried its just gonna stop just like last fall with us and i told him i was worried about that happening again and he told me not to be either. i want to stick it out and hopefully maybe he'll make a decision. what can i do to convince him to just be with me? im really worried about this summer coming up though. i know its hard to be faithful with so many things going on in the summer and im so worried of losing him and our thing being over. i know hell always come back but i know i dont deserve that. am i just pushing him and being needy of having to be in a committed relationship? im also scared because in 6 months he'll be going off to a new college and most likely will not want to settle. im so scared. should i just cut if off or just ride it out and see what happens? im too scared to keep asking him about us because i feel it pushes him away and i think the day i stop caring is the day he'll want to be with me again.
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