Author rod_in_gtown Posted April 3, 2009 Author Posted April 3, 2009 Haha! No, I mean, is the third date too soon to invite her over to my place?
Star Gazer Posted April 3, 2009 Posted April 3, 2009 Haha! No, I mean, is the third date too soon to invite her over to my place? My third date with my BF was at his house. He was a perfect gentleman though - that's the distinction, me thinks.
likestolaugh Posted April 3, 2009 Posted April 3, 2009 My third date with my BF was at his house. He was a perfect gentleman though - that's the distinction, me thinks. ...and I suspect Rod is a gentleman, so there shouldn't be a problem.
Author rod_in_gtown Posted April 3, 2009 Author Posted April 3, 2009 Aye! that I am, after I'm done raping and pillaging! arrrrrr!
D-Lish Posted April 3, 2009 Posted April 3, 2009 ...and I suspect Rod is a gentleman, so there shouldn't be a problem. haha:lmao::lmao:
Jersey Shortie Posted April 3, 2009 Posted April 3, 2009 I can't believe no one asked what the story was. What was the story?
Author rod_in_gtown Posted April 3, 2009 Author Posted April 3, 2009 haha:lmao::lmao: Heeeey!!! I can't believe no one asked what the story was. What was the story? Story about what? The story I told her? I don't think I can put it here, it's related to a work trip and guys being guys. Maybe a little unsavory for a first date but nothing that would be considered high-risk behavior.
Jersey Shortie Posted April 3, 2009 Posted April 3, 2009 I hate when guys say that.."guys being guys". It's pretty much said when guys want to excuse some what crappy behavior. No offense is meant to you Rod..but that's usually what guys mean by it.
clv0116 Posted April 3, 2009 Posted April 3, 2009 I tried eHarmony when it was new - it's a cesspool. Harlots and gold-diggers.
Author rod_in_gtown Posted April 3, 2009 Author Posted April 3, 2009 I hate when guys say that.."guys being guys". It's pretty much said when guys want to excuse some what crappy behavior. No offense is meant to you Rod..but that's usually what guys mean by it. None taken, I agree, but I'm not using it as an excuse, I'm just saying it's behavior that's not gentleman-like. And that's why I was kicking myself, I shouldn't have been a part of it in the first place and then I shouldn't have shared the story in the second place. I tried eHarmony when it was new - it's a cesspool. Harlots and gold-diggers. My eharm experience hasn't been THAT bad but it's been lukewarm at best. I had actually gotten fed up with the poor system they have where they're not upfront to their paying members about their matches, some of them haven't been active in months and that instills feelings of rejection and angst to those members who feel they're being ignored.
Cherry Blossom 35 Posted April 4, 2009 Posted April 4, 2009 That's great, Rod! Sounds like you guys had a great time. Look forward to hearing this tale unspool... I think inviting her over for dinner on the 3rd date may be too early. If I was dating a guy and he asked me to have dinner at his house on the 3rd date, I would be thinking, well that's the end of the formal dates. From now on we will always be "hanging out" and he won't make an effort. I KNOW that that is not the case with you, I just don't want you to give her anything to think about, ya know? But like another poster said, you know yourself and you have your own intuition about this girl, so go for it if you feel it is right.
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