You'reasian Posted March 15, 2009 Posted March 15, 2009 Fear not, as you age, women appear to discover the value of strong, quiet, gentlemanly behavior. What's old is new again, or something like that I know what you mean. I'm actually an extrovert, but I've sort of become the quiet, gentlemanly type - if that makes sense. Conditioning I suppose.
griffy Posted March 17, 2009 Posted March 17, 2009 If I said there were no good guys I would mean there were no good guys for ME. You may by one woman's definition be a "good" guy, but that has nothing to do with how another woman would define it. Also, I think some people confuse the word "good" with the word "nice." While you may be nice, you may not be good for me. In fact you may be very bad for me, even though you're nice.
Kenyth Posted March 19, 2009 Posted March 19, 2009 Too many people buy into the "soul mate" or "perfect partner" myth. Because of this, they are unwilling to accept the imperfections that all people have. Try this. Make a list of all the traits you find attractive in a mate (age, looks, intelligence, success, etc.). Give yourself five points per trait you list. Distribute those points between all the traits on a scale of one to ten to your preference. Chances are that you'll run out of points before you run out of traits you want to put points in. The five points per trait is also assuming you are average yourself. Ideally, you would be objectively scored on the same traits by a group of your peers. This would be the same amount of points you could realistically expect a potential partner to have.
Brady_to_Moss Posted March 20, 2009 Posted March 20, 2009 I am a good guy...but good guys always finish last but i really dont care anymore. I am just out here to have fun in life and see where it leads me. I have hit a time in my life where i am completley content with out have a female around. Less drama and more time to study on my classes and get my master degree.
Dexter Morgan Posted March 20, 2009 Posted March 20, 2009 Back to the premise of the thread. Where are all the "good guys"? We are here. We are just being very cautious, patient, and selective. the ball is eventually in our court:cool:
mental_traveller Posted March 30, 2009 Posted March 30, 2009 Sorry to be blunt. .. but short, fat, ugly nice guys finish last.. it's always been like that.. I know it's not fair.. but it's reality. The guy I met who had slept with the most women (almost all hot) was short, ugly, and a nice guy. Some of his gfs were beautiful enough that other women would come up and hit on them, while he was there...on more than one occasion he turned this into a threesome.
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