BusterBrown Posted March 10, 2009 Posted March 10, 2009 My wife left me the day after thanksgiving last year. Just up and left when everything was going alright. There was no fight or anything. She just said she didn't feel that way for me anymore. Since all of this, I have not heard or seen her cry once. I don't understand. She is a very emotional person. But she hasn't cried once. It's killing me because I hardly cry. But since she left I cry about every day. I cry now more than I have in my whole life put together. How can this be? It just hurts that its not phasing her. Like I meant nothing to her.
The Blue Pill Posted March 10, 2009 Posted March 10, 2009 That's unfortunate. It may sound twisted and horrible, but I am glad my ex cried during our breakup. At least that made me think she cared about me somewhat. If my ex was like yours, I would have probably been more angry than sad. If she can walk away from something that easily, I'd assume she had something else going on on the side taking up her emotions in a different way. That's just assuming though, and you know what they say about that...
Geishawhelk Posted March 10, 2009 Posted March 10, 2009 She could be taking tranquillisers. They really numb the emotions. Was she suffering from depression? How old is she? Kids? Hold on......
Author BusterBrown Posted March 11, 2009 Author Posted March 11, 2009 She could be taking tranquillisers. They really numb the emotions. Was she suffering from depression? How old is she? Kids? Hold on...... No depression. 27 No kids. And yes it does make me angry a little bit. After all of the love and commitment I poured into our marriage, now she acts like we never had a good marriage to begin with. Which is completely untrue.
Surfer Dude Posted March 11, 2009 Posted March 11, 2009 No depression. 27 No kids. And yes it does make me angry a little bit. After all of the love and commitment I poured into our marriage, now she acts like we never had a good marriage to begin with. Which is completely untrue. Welcome to the club. It's hard to see this kind of world for the first time... but you will be fine, just give yourself enough time to feel every range of emotion you can possibly feel. I'm almost 100% certain she has a deal going on the side. There are a lot of threads similar to yours in the divorce forums, and nearly all of them involved infidelity. Women just don't walk away from a good husband for no real reason, unless they're getting action behind your back.
Author BusterBrown Posted March 11, 2009 Author Posted March 11, 2009 Welcome to the club. It's hard to see this kind of world for the first time... but you will be fine, just give yourself enough time to feel every range of emotion you can possibly feel. I'm almost 100% certain she has a deal going on the side. There are a lot of threads similar to yours in the divorce forums, and nearly all of them involved infidelity. Women just don't walk away from a good husband for no real reason, unless they're getting action behind your back. See, that's the feeling that I get. And I've even found some evidence to point to it. Not proof, but evidence. But she completely denies it. She will not admit to anything. Everyone tells me she must have something going on the side. But I don't know and feel like I never really will.
EmperorR Posted March 15, 2009 Posted March 15, 2009 Sounds like she emotionally detached, probably talking to someone else who excites her and is in the fog. Been there and it sucks, my fiance of 3 years cheated dumped me no tears nothing as well.
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