WiseOne1 Posted March 10, 2009 Posted March 10, 2009 I haven't posted here in a while, but after a 1 year break up with my ex GF, out of that 1 year, I’ve done NC many times, sometimes lasting for 2 weeks, sometimes lasting for 3 hours. Of course she always talked about how much she hated her current bf, she also called me 24/7 around the clock, and would hold long conversations with me. She claimed her feelings had come back, out of nowhere she says! She says that she now loves me again and doesn't know what happened because at one time she didn't love me anymore and thought of me as just a friend. She then talked about how she was confused and didn’t know what she wanted, me or her bf (not new bf anymore) because they've been dating a year, and then at one time when we talked about her leaving him, she said I just love him to much....And I guess that means that you didn’t love me enough, and informed her that she has at lest 15 reasons to break up with him, but didn’t have 1 reason to break up with me and still did it though. Its true that me and her was best friends for 5 years before we even started dating and that’s probably what made me hang around so long, it became a time that I no longer felt like I needed to go NC, but then when her bf would come up in the picture that’s when my old feelings would come back again. And one day I looked at her myspace page, and it seems like she has a shrine of this dude, pictures everyone, I got furious....I SNAPPED! I guess it seems like she’s going to forever like drug dealers and gang bangers. I told her how I felt about her, and of course she cried and said it wasn’t fair to her, and I told her how I never want to talk to her again.... But then, instead of the regular NC, NOOOO!!! I didn’t even give her the chance to ever contact me again....I changed my cell phone number, I changed my house phone number, deleted all my old email address, and deleted all my myspace page and etc. I made sure we would never talk again, I guess you can say I went out of my way to make sure she'd be gone for good. And here I am, 10 days of NC, and never looking back, even if I wanted to contact her I don’t think my pride will allow me to..... I’m not sure what made me never want to talk to her again, I think maybe its because I felt like I was never given a fair chance, I felt discriminated against, I felt used... Lol, I walk alone!
playlislay Posted March 10, 2009 Posted March 10, 2009 Well done Wiseone! Im in a bitter mood so beware.......... How dare she think she can just waltz into your life? Claiming her feelings have changed, especially when she has a new bf! Cheek! Today I have learnt that Ex's are definately ex's for a reason! After hearing all of the b*llsh*t of 'lets be friends, please dont change class.....blsh blah blah' I soon realised that infact he didnt want to be friends, he never gave two hoots about how I felt after he dumped me, and now he is just ignoring me! I dont know why I bothered with such a weak man. Urgh! And yes, after all of that I am god damn hurt! Hurt to think that a man that claimed to love me so much could just turn into a cold wimp. Mler! Im going to take your route and change the old mobile number, block him from MSN and e-mails. NO CONTACT ALL THE WAY! Its the best way to get those who are not decent enough for an adult relationship out of your lives for good! Its their lost buddy. Good luck x
EmperorR Posted March 10, 2009 Posted March 10, 2009 Congrats man, I'm like 6 months nc, soon the hate will just dissapear and you won't even care anymore
Author WiseOne1 Posted March 10, 2009 Author Posted March 10, 2009 It was so hard for me to let loose, because she was doing everything that the myth of a loving ex gf was suppose to do. Alot of people on LoveShack say dont take them back unlest there apolgizing and showing remorse, and thats exactly what she did, she apolgized for hours sometimes, and then told me that she wants me back but cannot her her new bf, thats when I was like this is bull****.
janjan Posted March 12, 2009 Posted March 12, 2009 Congrats man, I'm like 6 months nc, soon the hate will just dissapear and you won't even care anymore i'm not as far along as emperorR myself, but this is true and soon enough you will be like "who, her? oh right" keep it up man, you're not alone and you'll get there
janjan Posted March 12, 2009 Posted March 12, 2009 Alot of people on LoveShack say dont take them back unlest there apolgizing and showing remorse, and thats exactly what she did, she apolgized for hours sometimes, and then told me that she wants me back but cannot her her new bf, thats when I was like this is bull****. nah not all apologizing is genuine as you've seen, it can just be some sick way of them pulling you back in to mess with you some more.
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