sad&lonely Posted March 10, 2009 Posted March 10, 2009 Well long story short, my gf broke up with me after 2 years, she started seeing another guy right away but me and her were still friends im a loser!, i was in bad shape very bad shape for 1month after feeling a little better i started dating 2-3 girls yet my ex alwyas on my mind, my ex started calling my like crazy after she found out im dating again.. and she said she still loves me i ended up having sex with her few times and we decided to be in a open relationship, so we can date others as well.. which is what im doing, but now last night she went on a date and man i was feeling depressed again.. i guess i should cut the ganja and control my emotions better but it hurts me when she goes with another guy, even tho i go with other girls i know sounds stupid and weird i guess this will not work but i really having a hard time letting her go, i dont know if this is normal but damn every girl i meet i want it to be better then my ex so i can forget her some how but they are not.. anyways just ranting having a bad night im digging my own grave here i know.
LoveUrselfFirst Posted March 10, 2009 Posted March 10, 2009 Okay, first off, do not call yourself a loser. You are not that. It's a decision you both wanted to try and its obvious you don't want the open relationship, so why don't you just tell her that it's not working. You don't need to give her an ultimatum, because if that happens, you may not like her answer. But I think in better terms, tell her that you can't do the open relationship because your a one-woman man (I think I said tthat right). If she doesn't want that, than you will know and move forward. And also stop jumping to the next girl...you are in rebound mode and although you feel that it's helping you, it's actually hurting you. When it's time to get into a relationship, than you'll know.
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