georgejungle Posted March 9, 2009 Posted March 9, 2009 I want Wife to still know I care, love and desire her. I've always been romantic, i shower her with "I love you's" "You're so beautiful" all the time, leave her notes. We're early 30's been together 9 years. But...the past year and a half since she was pregnant and we now have baby, we haven't been able to really share any intimacy or have any Date Nights and life at home has been busy and tiring due to baby. We love it though, wouldn't change it for anything. Very Proud Parents. BUT, I'm just wondering what other things i can do to show her that i love her and keep the romance alive aside from trying to sneak in a quick bedroom romp. We don't have a lot of time for that, we will soon enough, but til then...i'm trying to think outside the box thanks
Beautiful Inside Posted March 10, 2009 Posted March 10, 2009 i think its normal to go through cycles where one person in the relationship feels they need to do something to keep the romance alive. You might not think she thinks about it but a girl is always thinking about her man still thinking if he desires her or looks at her the way you use to look at her when you first started dating ....as long as you keep doing all the nice things u say you've been doing she should want to give you some loving! i think openly taking about it is the best. i love talking to my bf about sex and what i like what he likes when is best to do it etc... im sure if you out it out there to her about you want things to sizzle back up i really think you'll notice her doing things a lil different give it a shot!
quankanne Posted March 10, 2009 Posted March 10, 2009 I love love love the fact that after 17 years, my husband still will reach over to hold my hand when we're in public, and give me kisses too, because it doesn't bother him showing PDA. inside jokes are always fun, because they're something shared by the two of you, and no one else ... sexy looks, sexy talk – even when you know it's not going to go past that – are always good for making your mate feel attractive and desired. Winks, lecherous looks, etc.
blondesmiler Posted March 10, 2009 Posted March 10, 2009 What about arranging a sitter or parents to have your baby for a weekend and take her away for the night and do something nice during the day, just the two of you like hit the beach and a meal afterwards.
Geishawhelk Posted March 10, 2009 Posted March 10, 2009 Surprise her occasionally, by getting a baysitter, even if it's just for a couple of hours, and taking her out..... Tell her what a sexy mother she is... Buy her a mother's day card from the baby.... Plant a kiss on her neck when she looks at her worst, and tell her how beautiful you think she looks..... Get a song played for her on local radio, with a mushy message. tell her parents what a wonderful daughter they have, and what a great mom she is..... At some point, if she's getting up to do a chore, tell her to stay put, and you'll do it, then top it off with bringing her a cup of tea..... Just little things.... It's the mortar that holds the house together, not the bricks......
blondesmiler Posted March 10, 2009 Posted March 10, 2009 also how about going back to a place where you went when you were first dating? A restaurant, bowling alley, theme park, disco.........remenissing about the dating months/years.
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