misfit57 Posted March 9, 2009 Posted March 9, 2009 i have no idea. My friends keep telling me that they didnt see me, but it happened, apparently it was only a peck on the lips. I dont really remember much. My boyfriend is so disapointed. He says he cant trust me, and doesnt know if he can be with me. I really dont want to lose him. Can anyone please help. what can i do to make him really know it was the worst mistake of my life??
boldjack Posted March 9, 2009 Posted March 9, 2009 You must convince him you can still be trusted. Tell him it will NEVER, EVER happen again. NEVER even look at the guy you kissed. Don't drink as much. Don't go to places where this is likely to happen. Tell him you will Prove your love and honesty in every way, then do it.
Dexter Morgan Posted March 9, 2009 Posted March 9, 2009 i have no idea. My friends keep telling me that they didnt see me, but it happened, apparently it was only a peck on the lips. I dont really remember much. My boyfriend is so disapointed. He says he cant trust me, and doesnt know if he can be with me. I really dont want to lose him. Can anyone please help. what can i do to make him really know it was the worst mistake of my life?? you want to prove to him you can be trusted? No more drinking and partying. If you aren't willing to do that, then just do your bf a favor and break up.
Dexter Morgan Posted March 9, 2009 Posted March 9, 2009 You must convince him you can still be trusted. Tell him it will NEVER, EVER happen again. That won't help because it DID happen. And most people will realize if it happens once, it CAN happen again. So words mean nothing, action means everything which is why the following will do much more. NEVER even look at the guy you kissed. Don't drink as much. Don't go to places where this is likely to happen. If I were her, however, I wouldn't get my hopes up that anything she does will not stave off a breakup later due to this. But if she wants to make it "right" then she has to try regardless of what the outcome might be.
Geishawhelk Posted March 9, 2009 Posted March 9, 2009 Excuse the naive question, but if you don't remember, and none of your friends saw it happen - how do you actually know for sure it happened? Who told who, what? Just clear that up for me, for a moment, would you?
hollisterbaby Posted March 13, 2009 Posted March 13, 2009 this totally happened to me.when me and a group of friends went to a bar one of my bff 's said i made out with one of my other friends.i remember hugging him by the bathroom and i was drunk but dont remember kissing him.she swears we kissed though and he does too.
Beautiful Inside Posted March 13, 2009 Posted March 13, 2009 i guess you just have to put yourself in their shoes like how heart broken would you feel if your bf was kissing somone else i couldnt imagine how hurt id be if my bf did that seriously its like he's my best friend i could never hurt him...
Night Lilah Posted March 23, 2009 Posted March 23, 2009 misfit ~ may i ask how old you are? to some degree, i agree with previous posters that you need to be careful about drinking to the point where you do things you regret/don't remember. it's not a good feeling to wake up and feel guilty for something you probably wouldn't have done if you weren't wasted. however, assuming you're young-ish, that is, in your early teens maybe, i also wouldn't completely freak out about possibly having kissed someone. i don't mean to say it's ever okay to hurt someone, its too bad your boyfriend knows and is feeling hurt, but he could probably cut you some slack and see that it wasn't something you were really conscious of doing. if you really liked the guy before hand then that's a different story. it would also be a different story if you were in a seriously committed long term relationship and were more aware of your actions. don't feel like you're a bad person, and don't let anyone (not even your man) make you feel like one. just be mindful of your boyfriend's hurt feelings, show him you are sincere and regret what happened. if you guys want it to work, it will.
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