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My girlfriend acts DISTANT after Anal sex ? Is she about to dump me ?


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I guess you will just have to wait and see. If she feels that she can talk to you about it, then you have an opportunity to clear the air and maybe become closer in the process. If she doesn't feel comfortable talking about it, then you may not be right for each other. Otherwise, she would discuss it with you. Don't disappear, but don't lay it on too thick with the texting/calling either. Give her a little breathing room but let her know you are still interested.

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Pardon my French but wouldn't you get a little distant too after having a cock rammed up your arse?

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Yes, it most certainly does matter!!!

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Pardon my French but wouldn't you get a little distant too after having a cock rammed up your arse?

 

 

:lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao:..........

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Dude, you are a ****ing joke. You have mentioned your dick everytime you have posted, wtf.:laugh::laugh::laugh::laugh:

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You were gentle with your massive shlong, and she whimpered in submission. People, I smell troll.:laugh::laugh:

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well it really shouldnt matter if a guy is tiny 4 inches or ample 7.5

the nerves around the anus only go aout 2 inches.

 

OMG I would LOVE to give you a bit o' bob up your ass.

 

And after reading your subsequent posts, I find your attitude both now and during your GF's unfortunate first encounter with you sexually to be horrid. she whimpered, and you didn't STOP immediately??

 

You can't find a freaking gas station or convenience for a rubber at 11 pm???

 

Yep - you are toast. And very possibly, you can congratulate yourself for ****ing up a woman's sexuality for the next few years.

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Great, now I'm reading this, just as I was about to possibly 'go there' after some indications from my gf that it'd probably be okay :(.

Better to keep it classy and tame, i guess :)

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Is this some kind of porn thread? Dude do you have to write all the sexual details? Who gives a crap. Gross.

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Aaaahhhh come on Chrome.. don't you think she already did... :laugh:

 

Well not in that way again unless she got some ky jelly. lol.

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So wait... this was your first sexual experience together? And it was ANAL???? That sounds so.... romantic. :rolleyes:

 

BTW, you can contract STDs from anal. Even if she's only been with three people, there's no telling who those three people have slept with or whether or not they had diseases.

 

And I hope for her sake, you're disease free.

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It seems really strange that this woman who is so super clean and germ-a-phobic would let you have anal sex without a condom.

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So it was all about you.

 

Did you do anything to make her come? Anything at all? Or did you just get yours and then "cuddle" until you fell asleep? :rolleyes:

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Hmmm you know what i think it also might be since she's germophobic is possibly she has like obsessive compulsive disorder, probably

 

but here's the thing to her it's a dirty act it probably made her skin crawl, and she knows it did, but possibly i think deep inside she liked it. or she didnt and dont know how to tell you.

 

Many of women are funny about that, do depraved sexual acts with their boyfriends say they hate it and deep down inside they like it, but are too ashamed to admit it.

 

Give it time. just keep the lines of communication wide OPEN. lol. im sorry for the pun.

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did i screw up ???

 

Yes........

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She might be disappointed. You can't take it away from her because she's not used to it. It takes a lot of explanations. Don't dwell on that topic yet that much. Let her forget it for now. If she opens up about it then assure her that it's notbad at all and that others are doing it as well but if shhe says that she doesn' like it then don't do it again.....yet.

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Oh, probably.

:lmao::lmao::lmao: Laughing so hard, I almost dumped.

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Now it's church thing. It seems like every time a poster has a criticism, you tunnel your troll way around it. This is all bs.

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Anal is not to everybody's taste, and with no lube you shouldn't have even been thinking of having anal sex - ESPECIALLY with no condoms.

It's nothing to do with stds and infectious conditions: The anus is so full of harmful bacteria and excrement (body waste - it's got rid of for a reason!) that it's an insane idea to go anywhere near it.

 

First time together having sex - and you go anal? Without discussing it, or metaphorically easing into it gently and gradually?

Never, ever ever have anal sex this quickly, with someone who's never experienced it.

No lube.

Man that is just mind-bogglingly painful.

Have you any idea?

Try it some time.

 

Really. I'm serious.

 

Go buy a similarly-sized zucchini, and go for it.

No lube, no condom.

 

When the inner wall of your anus splits, and you just can't stand the pain any more, and you feel as if your insides are trying to cr@p upwards - then tell me how good it feels for you, and when you wanna do it again.

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Meh troll. Get a life.

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well i havent been dating since my divorce and didnt have condoms on hand

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also i told her that vaginal and anal sex feel exactly yhe same to me and she said she didnt understand that///

 

did i screw up ???

LMAO Are you this chick's boyfriend?? :lmao:http://www.enotalone.com/forum/showthread.php?t=275915

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I have to say also..that although it is very rare...it is still possible to get pregnant via anal sex if there is a little tear..google it...the percentage is very low but it is possible.

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im very very careful.

and with her i deeply care about her and would never do anything like that.

yes she said it was painful, very painful and i was too big. but i also know she was shocked when i first tried without warning

 

so second time i took it sooo slow. just tap tap and then used her wetness to slowly enter.

 

she whimpered but she does that a lot

and we hugged and kissed afterwards

 

had chocolate and hugged more.

 

she may be be pissed at me but i know she doesnt feel raped.

The letter i is used here allot i did this i did that i like this i want that! see were I'm going with that?

 

Sorry but if she whimpered why didn't you stop? thats a clear sign the womens in PAIN! I hope she dumps you cause you don't care about her from the way you act...

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i think also maybe she wouldve like to stay over and sleep with me in bed

but i had to drive her home because I had to be up at 6 am sunday to go to some Church thing.

 

she may have gone home an dbrooded over it.

 

Bigger jerk than I thought. You won't let your GF spend Friday night because you have to get up early on Sunday morning.

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What a wanker sorry to say...

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