Chrome Barracuda Posted March 8, 2009 Posted March 8, 2009 OMFG today at work walked in the most hottest piece of canadian bacon i have ever laid eyes on. She had soft smooth cocoa brown skin, big smile, nice eyes and a phat donkey!!! I was like dayum. I was just talking to her she's smart because she's a senior in college, two she's hot, 3 she appreciates a good laugh. I'm just so nervous because none of my relationships long term work out, I mean yeah I can get coochie, no doubt. but when it's been emotional relationships with women it ends horribly and one sided. I'm just so nervous because i wasnt expecting her to give me her number but I asked and she did. Which was awesome, she'll be back in my hometown next week, so hopefully we'll hang out and get to know each other better but dayum i have not had a girl this hot ever be around a dude like me in y life. I'm still in shock. I'm not trying to ruin it but i dont want to be in the friend zone, and i dont want her to think I think of her as just a piece of meat to devour and throw away when im done, because to the contrary I do want a real relationship. A co-worker called me a male chauvenist before which i thought was funny because yes as a man I do lust after women but i am capable of feelings. lol. Any pointers on how to go about this?
not.who.you.think Posted March 10, 2009 Posted March 10, 2009 Dude, just touch her back... its actually that simple to transfer from the friend zone to romance. Make little gestures. Physical contact is this key at this early point in the game. And don't say dayum. It's retarded. Be polite, mindful of what you say, mindful of what she's thinking about you. Predict and adapt accordingly. Don't reveal anything about yourself that might offend her. If you like her your main goal should be pleasing her and attracting her. So take her somewhere fun, don't be a negative nancy, and do things you excel at... but don't brag. You can put yourself down... for jokes. but be joking about it and don't do it too much. Remember, a simple guiding hand on the back (not ass) as she passes through the door is all you need. Also lean on her shoulder when laughing together, touch her knee when you compliment her. That sort of thing and you'll be in like flint. Be nice to her... I have great compassion for my countrymen(and women). Good luck, and keep batting for the fences... Noble ps. by polite i mean: no spitting, no littering, please and thank yous and swearing (you can do it but not often, and apologize for it). don't call her a dime piece.
Viking Posted March 10, 2009 Posted March 10, 2009 Better call her every day to make sure the number she gave you isn't fake... But really, if she's got you going that much already, don't show it too soon. Make sure you act a little mysterious and playful, but not a friend playful-more than a friend playful, but no crotch grabs or anything, those are always reserved for the second date/when you're kissing her for the first time:laugh:. Good luck whenever she comes back.
Author Chrome Barracuda Posted March 10, 2009 Author Posted March 10, 2009 damn NWYT, your acting like im some uncouth barbarian! lol. and of course im gonna be a complete gentlemen it's not that hard I am a very nice guy. Lean on her sholder? I'm like what 6'0 she's like 5'5? lol. me leaning on her is gonna be a problem. And she is a dime piece which means she's a ten! that' you should know. oh viking we talked last night, it was awesome!!! she is very cool and likes to laugh, aint gonna be the friend zone for me.
Peter_pan Posted March 10, 2009 Posted March 10, 2009 lol nice work. ive got some girls numbers before i figured they were being nice lol..
I'm Joe Posted March 10, 2009 Posted March 10, 2009 So the term "dime piece" is a coast to coast term. I feel a bit uncouth for instantly recognizing it.
serial muse Posted March 10, 2009 Posted March 10, 2009 So the term "dime piece" is a coast to coast term. I feel a bit uncouth for instantly recognizing it. I recognized it and I thought it was funny. Don't have much advice, CB, but it kind of sounds like you're already in! Wish you luck...
Eweezy Posted March 10, 2009 Posted March 10, 2009 Chrome do not pedestal her with this dime piece or 10 talk because her hottness might put you in the friendzone, you might be afraid to make moves on her. I would also say do not worry about things that didn't happen yet that only adds more pressure on yourself.
Author Chrome Barracuda Posted March 10, 2009 Author Posted March 10, 2009 oh no, im looking at her like a regular woman aint gonna be putting on a pedestal just because she's hot but the hotness is a bonus i tell you that. I'm glad someone finds me funny serial muse. lol. joe you is crazy. it is a coast to coast term, which is cool. Peter pan what you mean she was doing it because she was nice. you telling me if you got a girls number she wasnt interested in you? That's messed up.
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