Sammyman13 Posted March 7, 2009 Posted March 7, 2009 Hi all first post glad I found this place. Story goes meant this girl late last year through two gay friends of mine finally last month we did a happy hour together, me, her and the two gay guys. We are both 31, turns out she lives about 4 miles from me. We’ll we “hung out” that night and went back to her place. So she lives in a house with another guy. Single entry, when you walk in his floor in on the right (1st floor) or you can follow the stairs up to her floor (2nd). Within 5 minutes of us getting back to her place this guy and his “flavor of the day” (which the girl told me that she was) came up stairs. She introduces me to him and says this is Paul, (fake name) we own the house together he is my ex boyfriend of many years. I was like “ok”. So thought nothing of it, went back to her place a few times she came to mine twice. During those times we were intimate. One time I was over there and forgot protection, she said “no problem I will go downstairs and grab one of Paul’s, he is not home.” I said no that’s cool we will just chill. I asked her about her what she likes to do on the weekends as she says she likes to party with her friends. I asked her about her other girlfriends and she said that she does not have any as she does not like girls and the only friends she hangs out with is her guy friends. She parties with them as she goes to strip clubs with them and they do “recreational stuff ” together when they party. (sniff, which I don't do however witness is 2 times with her and Paul doing it when we hung out with him). One is to her “like a brother” another is the guy that lives downstairs her ex, and another is just a friend. So I said maybe one weekend we can go to Atlantic City to party and she says “I’ll tell Paul and he will set it up with the guys and we will go, I always go down there with them” I was like to myself, what? Then we were kissing one night and she said I was a good kisser and I said, “I try” She said well I “wouldn’t be kissing you if you were not, I didn’t kiss Paul when we were together because he was not a good kisser” (the ex she owns house with). Then they both have dogs so he would text her to feed his dog in the event that he was out and she would do the same for him sometimes when we were in bed together or hanging out she "oh its Paul he wants me to feed the dogs" She then told me Paul sometimes comes up to her floor with his flavor of the month late at night and knocks on her door and asks her to be intimate with them and she says no. Then one night she told me that her ex of three years got in a bad car accident and she went to see him even though his new girlfriend hates her. She really has no one in terms of family as her parents are old and in assisted living and only one sister. She is however really into me as she will text me all the time says good night, can’t wait to see you again and things like that. What type of girl is this and should I get out now? Thanks, Sammy
gfto Posted March 7, 2009 Posted March 7, 2009 I'd disappear. My rule of thumb was always that if she has any sort of contact with an ex, I want nothing to do with her. It makes life easier.
SpanksTheMonkey Posted March 7, 2009 Posted March 7, 2009 I'm sorry even I cant read that you need to break it up a bit more for the future so you can get more hopefully helpful responses...
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