GAchasen Posted March 7, 2009 Posted March 7, 2009 I have been dating a man I met off of a dating site for 3 months now. We started off seeing each other on every weekend, then it moved to every other weekend, and now it has been once during the week. He told me that he wasn't dating anyone else and he took his profile off. But I have this suspicion that he isn't telling me the truth. He is taking three classes on every other weekend and is working at a full time job. When we first started dating, he told be he would not call me everyday, however he would call. Recently he went a week without calling and I called him. He told me he was busy and he listed everything he had been doing. This bothers me. I care about him. I can tell he likes me. Except, I wonder if he is dating other women on the weekends. He said no. Should I believe him?
D-Lish Posted March 7, 2009 Posted March 7, 2009 It's the first few months of a relationship when things should be heating up, not cooling down. I don't see the not calling for a week as a good sign- you shouldn't have to be calling him to find out what is going on. Trust your instincts that something is up. He may not be seeing others- but that doesn't mean he isn't cooling things off. If you have an incling something is off- trust that feeling.
Lizzie60 Posted March 7, 2009 Posted March 7, 2009 Nope.. he's lying.. he's just NOT that into you.. he's probably checking other possibilities.. move on.. unless you have energy and time to waste..
jenniferlm Posted March 7, 2009 Posted March 7, 2009 I agree with lizzie... If someone is "in" to you, then you know. he's left you wondering...so he's obviously not. If you have time to waste, and aren't interested in finding a LTR right now, go ahead and keep dating him. But if you're looking for more, you're not going to get it. Remember...don't make someone a priority...when you are only an OPTION to them. Personally, I wouldn't waste my time, but if you want, the next time he calls you for a date during the week, tell him you're busy, and if he'd like to go out that weekend to give you a call. Then, you will know how he feels. If he likes you more than those other girls, maybe he will push one of the other chicks he's seeing to a "during the week date". and move you up to the weekend again. lol. But WHY would you want someone like that???
Green Posted March 7, 2009 Posted March 7, 2009 The way you tell the story it sounds bad for you. He may or may not be cheating but your relationships future looks grim at this point. I'm hearing break up bells
socialight Posted March 7, 2009 Posted March 7, 2009 D LIsh is 100% correct. I'll bet my convertible on it.
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