jadelil25 Posted March 6, 2009 Posted March 6, 2009 If your girlfriend of two months messaged you and asked if it is ok to come round and see you for 10 minutes before you go home for the weekend? Everything is great when my boyfriend and I are together but sometimes when we are apart he seems a bit distant. I know he is shy and has been busy at work. I have asked him to be honest with me on how he feels no matter what because lies make it worse and he said that he is being honest and will always be and that he wants me to be honest back. He said that he really cares about me, likes me a lot, I make him happy and he wants to make me happy. We only get to see each other once or twice a week and I have asked if it is ok to message him every day once or twice and he said that it is ok. He does not always reply to my messages or calls. I messaged him and called him yesterday and he did not reply back and I have messaged him once today and because he is at work I guest that is why he is not responding. I have only seen him once this week on Tuesday and I wont get to see him again until Monday. Im missing him like crazy. Should I message him again and ask if it is ok to see him for a bit and have kisses and cuddles before he goes or should I not ask and try to give him a call later? How would you honestly feel if your partner done this?
dreamergrl Posted March 6, 2009 Posted March 6, 2009 Personally, IMO, if a guy is really interested, he makes time! Even if it's just a call or text or email.
yeex Posted March 6, 2009 Posted March 6, 2009 No do not message him again even though that will be hard. You have already messaged him a few times and have not gotten a response. Either he is really busy or playing "games". Maybe not even games. Maybe he just wants to take things slow. Anyways ball is in his court now. You do not want to appear clingy.
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