Jaded25 Posted March 6, 2009 Posted March 6, 2009 I was seeing my boyfriend for 2 mths, nothing serious, when he slept with his ex. It was fine, we weren't serious and I wasn't expecting anything from him. After the 2 mths we became exclusive and another 2mths later he revealed he was in love with me. It took me a little longer, I didn't trust him. But he won me over and I'd never been happier. We are now together 7mths and I found out that he has cheated. He cheated about a month ago and about 2weeks before that, with the same person. This person being the ex from before. He's sorry, he's asked me to stand by him while he picks up the pieces. He said he was stupid and to put it simply, he said he was "...led by my d!ck". Apparently the girl got in touch with him and was saying dirty things and it excited him. Don't get me wrong, we have an amazing, sensual, exciting, adventurous sex life. This is what is confusing me. I've said I'll give it another go and we're trying to work on it. But I'm starting to feel like I just don't love him as much. There are stages in grief, are there stages in mending a broken heart? All advices welcome.
samiam143 Posted March 10, 2009 Posted March 10, 2009 They have history. RUN! He'll do it again if he's already cheated on you twice. If he was going to feel remorse he would have the first time he did it. Shame on him for cheating and shame on you for forgiving him twice.
Beautiful Inside Posted March 10, 2009 Posted March 10, 2009 HONEY I SOOOO know how your feeling check this out.... ive been engaged to my fiance for over a year everything is going great right one day i decide to look through his computer just to make myself feel 100 percent like i have the best committed man ever u know.....i wanted to feel like i knew everything....well i regret checking it i went into his chat accounts that were saved and i found all these chats he had with his ex that they had a serious past like they were together all 4 years in high sk0ol and on and off after that cus she had sex with his best friend....not to mention y would he ever even wanna talk to her agin after that right....well my point is it was the most painful thing i started to think all these horrible thoughts and i cried my heart out i hurt so bad to see that i really trusted him and thought he could tell me everything but i still feel like a part of him will never let her go deep down.... makes me so sick even remembering that moment...
samiam143 Posted March 10, 2009 Posted March 10, 2009 Beautiful inside is right, if he still has feelings for her they aren't going to go away. They have history and he's living in the past. Might as well move on.
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