Lamelu Posted March 6, 2009 Posted March 6, 2009 I moved to this town and new school about 8 months ago. I am 17. Me and my boyfriend were friends from the start, and have now been dating for 3 months. My longest relationship yet. A month or two before we started dating I kind of had a fling with this other guy. He was really crazy about me in the beginning and tried real hard, but I never really gave him attention. When I finally realized how much I liked him, it was too late. He had started dating one of his best friends. I confessed to him and he broke up with her for me. However about a week later he left me for her again without even letting me know. He said later he didn't know what to tell me. Me and my boyfriend now aren't really committed, but we are both very possessive and spend a lot of time together. I am happy with him and I care for him alot but things nowadays is not that good anymore. He gets angry and jealous at things I do, but instead of telling me hes angry kind of ignores me or pretend everythings fine and handles me like a random person. He also has alot of ex-girlfriends and friends who are girls with whom he spends alot of time. This really bugs me sometimes but I don't want to say anything about it because he has such a childish reaction to problems, so i just leave it. I sometimes think I'm an idiot for putting up with everything and that there is nothing really exciting about him, but I am fairly happy and he does care for me, so i just keep apologizing and being the least when I know I am right or he is acting like an 10 year old. This past week however my ex-fling and his girlfriend broke up, only to be reunited later. But I have heard through mutual friends how he is unhappy in the relationship and wants to end it permanently. We stopped talking for about 5 months, but the past month we have started talking again. We have had alot of laughs and fun in this time and I definitly picked up on him throwing hints about us. His best friend has told me how well he thinks we fit together and my ex have thrown alot of hints that he still likes me. All my feelings for him is coming rushing back. He is one of the most exciting and funny people I have ever met. The time we were together he went to so much trouble for me. He would jump through a hoop of fire for me and enjoy it. I really miss him. I am not sure whether there is a chance or not, or whether i can trust him or should try anything? My current boyfriend does care for me alot and he always ends up to be there for me in the end, but I just do not click with him and get excited by him as I do by my ex. What should I do?? If I should do anything??
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