lovestory5 Posted March 6, 2009 Posted March 6, 2009 People date and think that their love is enough for the long time relationships. But when thy get married, many demands appear. Many men want the ideal women for them. Is this possible? Of course, this is possible. : ) Here are some qualities of women, men want to see in their second halves after marriage. : ) So the ideal woman should: She knows how to cook well. And she should not put her duties on a man’s shoulder. If a man, being married, eats half-finished products, believe me that he will find another wife soon.To incur the lion's share of a current housework of not demanding big physical force. To wipe dust, to wash floor, in general to make the house cozy and cleanTo go shopping alone, instead of leading up the husband to a heart attack by three-hour shopping.To incur a dominant role in education of children, to change diapers, to bring/take away the child to/from a children's garden/school.To drive the car (it will be easy to do the points 3 and 4).To have elementary skills of cutting and sewing: to darn the hall, to sew a button.To launder. A man should not know about the problems with it at all. He should go to the wardrobe and find a clean shirt there. Besides, ironing is also a woman’s duty.To plan the family budget. To know all the cheapest prices on all the products.To find the compromise in the conflict with the man is the woman’s duty too.To create the comfortable psychological conditions in the family. If the man came home after work, tired of many problems, he should find the understanding and support from the wife.To be good in sex.To be able to do elementary massage.To understand the hobbies of the husband and to share them with him.A woman can be weak, but when her help is needed, she should be stronger than her husband.Dear men, we can be ideal for you, but think about your duties and compare them with ours. : ) Do you still really think that you are the head of the family? : ) What are your duties then? : ) Is this all or you can add some more demands?
boxing123 Posted March 6, 2009 Posted March 6, 2009 Male duties? Provide for family. Protect family. Teach kids sports, spend plenty of time with them. Discipline. Sex for wife. Be strong and reliable. Take care of yard/home. Fix things. Make sure vehicles are safe. Plan occasional dates. Buy wife things/make her feel special.
Mahatma Posted March 6, 2009 Posted March 6, 2009 Um. Instead of asking us, use the search button. I have seen 3 topics on this in the past 2 days.
LovieDove24 Posted March 6, 2009 Posted March 6, 2009 No the ideal woman holds the same responsibility as the ideal man does in a relationship: self sacrifice. You can divide up the "duties" all you want but it is going to be different in every relationship. And quite honestly, I find your viewpoint quite archaeic. Just my opinion.
johan Posted March 7, 2009 Posted March 7, 2009 Oh crap. I don't know how to darn halls. If you're pretty, that isn't as important. All of those bullet points should start with "If you're only marginally attractive you need to be able to..."
spookie Posted March 7, 2009 Posted March 7, 2009 If you're pretty, that isn't as important. All of those bullet points should start with "If you're only marginally attractive you need to be able to..." Oh ok. Thanks for the clarification.
Citizen Erased Posted March 7, 2009 Posted March 7, 2009 [*]To go shopping alone, instead of leading up the husband to a heart attack by three-hour shopping. Oh yes, shopping is really a heart attack waiting to happen. I'm frequently stepping over convulsing, over-shopped men in the aisles.
Author lovestory5 Posted March 7, 2009 Author Posted March 7, 2009 No, my post is not a joke. My post was to tell the man that they should think that women do much more work than they do. Maybe I am mistaken, but as the practice shows it is really true. And I think what is really true as one OP says about the attractivness of the woman. I think that it is the real point to asnwer this question and my post. A woman can do less work if she is attractive and sexy, then the man will do almost all work and even if she won't cook he will pay bills at the restarunt, if she won't keep the household, he will take a person to do it. Guys, do you all think so?
Woggle Posted March 7, 2009 Posted March 7, 2009 Don't nag Don't cheat Don't expect the relationship or marriage to be a 24/7 fairytale Be able to see things from my point of view even if you don't agree Take responsibility for her actions and don't always play the victim Appreciate what I do for her and return the favor every now and then If she can offer these things I consider myself very lucky.
SpanksTheMonkey Posted March 7, 2009 Posted March 7, 2009 I have 1 requirement and 1 only in a man....#1 is must have pulse.. but even that may change as I get older dunno yet lol..
Citizen Erased Posted March 7, 2009 Posted March 7, 2009 I have 1 requirement and 1 only in a man....#1 is must have pulse.. but even that may change as I get older dunno yet lol.. Really? How very...well, sluttish really. I like.
SpanksTheMonkey Posted March 7, 2009 Posted March 7, 2009 Really? How very...well, sluttish really. I like. Oh my I should have said far as relationships go! oopsie..
Citizen Erased Posted March 7, 2009 Posted March 7, 2009 Oh my I should have said far as relationships go! oopsie.. I know, I was just teasing.
alphamale Posted March 7, 2009 Posted March 7, 2009 But when thy get married, many demands appear. not only do demands go up but expectations also go up. thats a deadly combo.
Trialbyfire Posted March 7, 2009 Posted March 7, 2009 lovestory, people shouldn't get married if all the list of items comes as a shock or surprise, post "I do". Understanding each other's needs or wants previous to marriage, is important. Once you've communicated about these issues, you can then decide if you even want to marry the guy. Guaranteed I wouldn't marry a guy who expected the full list. Marry a partner, not a child looking for his mommy.
Author lovestory5 Posted March 8, 2009 Author Posted March 8, 2009 Dear Guys, I am thankful for all your comments. You are really interesting people with whom I can talk. ; ) Thank you. : )
Alan430 Posted March 8, 2009 Posted March 8, 2009 No, my post is not a joke. My post was to tell the man that they should think that women do much more work than they do. Maybe I am mistaken, but as the practice shows it is really true. And I think what is really true as one OP says about the attractivness of the woman. I think that it is the real point to asnwer this question and my post. A woman can do less work if she is attractive and sexy, then the man will do almost all work and even if she won't cook he will pay bills at the restarunt, if she won't keep the household, he will take a person to do it. Guys, do you all think so? I did this with my ex, Almost everything, and it only works a while without resentment. That sexy attractive thing is very superficial and as life starts throwing punches those qualities seems very much insignifcant. What i want in my wife is a partner, Somone i know who truly has my back thoughout lifes up and downs. She is willing to pick up the slack when i cant and vise versa. Including the mundane things of life such as house work etc, tackling these things as a team. And of course instilling happyness just being around, being understanding and forgiving at times.
Author lovestory5 Posted March 9, 2009 Author Posted March 9, 2009 We understand many things after we live through them. I have seen such men and I told myself that they will understand what is more important and in many cases it happened.
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