Lovebug5 Posted March 6, 2009 Posted March 6, 2009 Hey everyone im havin some problems with my girlfriend tomaday in school i was being a complete ass hole so i punched my locker and broke my wrist and i told her dont feel bad it was my fault and i diserved it and i think she is getting ready to break up with me wat do i do to try to save this relation ship her best friend told me to hug her everytime i see her i dont know if thats enough wat should i say to her wat should i do Thanks
AGBourne Posted March 6, 2009 Posted March 6, 2009 Whatever you do decide to do, make sure you still keep your integrity. Punched a locker? Are you in high school? By the way, there are plenty of fish in the sea. Never hold on to something that doesn't want to be held on to.
CandyGirlXO Posted March 6, 2009 Posted March 6, 2009 Not to be a downer here but I wish I would have listened when I was in HS to this comment - HS relationships BARELY last. Have fun, date, don't take these relationships too seriously, go out with friends, enjoy life without bills and responsibilities. Don't let this relationship get you down, there will be many more lovers in the future. Man if I could go back....
chrislovestosurf Posted March 6, 2009 Posted March 6, 2009 Hey everyone im havin some problems with my girlfriend tomaday in school i was being a complete ass hole so i punched my locker and broke my wrist and i told her dont feel bad it was my fault and i diserved it and i think she is getting ready to break up with me wat do i do to try to save this relation ship her best friend told me to hug her everytime i see her i dont know if thats enough wat should i say to her wat should i do Thanks First, learn how to compose a proper sentence. Second, learn proper grammar. Third, did she want to break up with you because you punched your locker or because of another reason?
bean1 Posted March 6, 2009 Posted March 6, 2009 lovebug, If I was your girlfriend, I would certainly break up with you after you broke your wrist punching a locker. That kind of anger is frightening to a person, especially a young woman. A lot of violence within relationships begin with that sort of behaviour. I recommend you speak to someone regarding your anger issues and let this relationship go. You need to be a healthy rational person before you have a healthy rational relationship.
carhill Posted March 6, 2009 Posted March 6, 2009 Date someone else. Boxing gloves help with the broken bone part. You might find martial arts to be a better channeling of that energy and bring more peace to your soul
Sam Spade Posted March 6, 2009 Posted March 6, 2009 Date someone else. Boxing gloves help with the broken bone part. You might find martial arts to be a better channeling of that energy and bring more peace to your soul I wish Carhill was my dad, and woogle - the uncle who my parent's don't like, but that's precisely why i think he's cool.
colosseum Posted March 6, 2009 Posted March 6, 2009 chrislovestosurf, you got the message didn't you? come on, calm down. as a guy myself i think it's stupid for a girl to break-up w/ u over something u did stupidly yourself. on the other hand, i can absolutely see bean1's point: if i were to see some other guy do that, i might think he has issues. and u may or may not, since we all flare up with pent-up frustrations some times. so may be just talk to her, unless u really are a crazy angry abusive hs kid (which i really hope you're not). BUT, and this is a BIG BUT really--sounds like ur in high school. there are 7 billion ppl in this world. she's 1 of them. u got time--explore, have fun, get to know other ppl--don't hang on to things that won't last.
jadelil25 Posted March 6, 2009 Posted March 6, 2009 Im sorry but I can not blame her for wanting to break up with you if you have anger issues. It is quite scary and not what a girl wants to see. You are still very young and have plenty of time to be worrying about dating and getting in to serious relationships. Just have fun with your friends, enjoy being young and single and you will meet someone else when the time is right and when you least expect it. Also maybe get some help for dealing with your anger issues.
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