lovergrl86 Posted March 5, 2009 Posted March 5, 2009 The other night my boyfriend and I had a threesome with a guy friend of ours. We have been together for over a year and four months and got two kids together. I am very happy with my relationship and love him very much. Well he has been bugging me to have one for over a year and i always said no, well i eventually gave in and did it. I was doing this for him cause I thought he wanted it. Well the next morning was awkward and he didnt talk to me all day. Then that night when we were talking he told me that he couldnt believe that I did that with another guy, that I should of said no. All I wanted was to give him something special and now I feel like a bad person for doign this. I have never cheated on him or anything. he has broken up with me many times and screwed other girls and has cheated on me in the past. I forgave him for everything and told him he needs to just place forgive me that I made a mistake. I told him I feel like **** and I am so sorry for it. I love him so much and only wnated to make him happy. His feeling seem really hurt and I feel like a bad person for doing that in front of him he has never doen it with another girl in front of me and I told him he needs to see that when he was with other girls I still have that image in my head. It was a mistake and I just want to have him forgive me and move on!! What can I do to make him see that I am really sorry for it and regret it?? I hurt him really bad and never meant to do it on purpose, hes my world, my baby and I want to marry him one day...but how can we just move on from this and out it behind us as a experiance gone terribly wrong?
chrislovestosurf Posted March 5, 2009 Posted March 5, 2009 wait wait wait wait wait.... he wanted a threesome with another guy and not another girl? And then he had the balls to get mad at you the next day? Your boyfriend is a tool. I also think your relationship has no future after him watching you have sex with another guy. Why was this done with another guy, especially a friend ?!
sid3 Posted March 5, 2009 Posted March 5, 2009 I'm confused. You said it was his idea, so why is he feeling hurt? It's strange that he would pester you about having a threesome with another guy. Maybe he got jealous seeing and thinking that the other guy was doing a better job than he does?!?! You forgave him for cheating. Most people wouldn't. The say once a cheater always a cheater.
confused_2008 Posted March 5, 2009 Posted March 5, 2009 I dunno, this sounds bizarre. What did he expect would happen if he involved this other guy, that they would do the deed and you would just chill? Maybe it was some sick test to see if you would actually do it. Either way, his problem, IMO.
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