tbaby82 Posted March 4, 2009 Posted March 4, 2009 This continues from my other thread I posted My boyfriend of 5 years is breaking up with me. The reason is because he's stressed for his life. He found out a month ago that he has a 3 month old daughter by some girl he doesn't want any part of. Sense then he has been a complete wreck. He said he needs some time to himself so that he can figure out some things in his life. He has no job and he has 3 kids to take care of now. I feel his pain but it's like what did I do to lose the one that I care so much about. Two weeks before he told me our relationship was perfect. But now it feels like its gone. My friend told me that she knows a guy like him that when he has alot on him he would prefer to be to himself. That's just the way he deals with things. I really miss him and I hate to see him like this. We had our future planned out and to me I don't think I will see any of what I had hoped. I have decided to give him his place so that he can take care of what he needs too. Maybe he'll be back. He wants me to wait for him but I told him that I'm not waiting long. Plz give some advice if you can. He is a reall stubborn guy at times and somethimes when his mind is made up there is no trying to change it. I wish I could help him but it seems impossible right now. I also look at this as him finding himself when it comes to us. I've been telling him that im ready to marry but i son't know where he stands. Hopefully this will make him a better person and make him realize that I am a good woman and I deserve the best.
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