sidvicious57 Posted March 4, 2009 Posted March 4, 2009 Here's the story; 6yrs together he ignored my call, accidently answered it without knowing I heard everything 2/23/09 he denied it for 2 days then finally said they had kissed and saw eachother 2 times, nothing happened from there every bit of info i have had to pry out of him, which is 2/25/09 saw her 4 times over past 4 months they kissed twice last monday (he says was the last time he was going to see her, his ex, yeah right) kissed once on another visit and the other 2 was just hanging out with her kids (she's also married) on 2/26/09 I find out it was 5 times and they kissed on a third visit as well. I told him we were over and that he needs to get his stuff straight if he wants to start over with me. He could continue living here in a different area of the house and I would help him get sober. After 6 mo maybe we could think about starting again, but I wanted the truth out, and no more laying. He told me over and over again that he had already told me everything that happened. Everything was going pretty good. (we weren't together) on 3/02/09 I found out he slept with her. He says once. I saw how much they were talking and I asked him again. "you f her didn't you?" he said "yeah i did". He said he'd been wanting to tell me and was trying to work of the courage. He thought the grass was greener and he knows that it's not true. He didn't know what he was doing and he wants me and this life. He doesn't know why he did what he did, but he knows he's been selfish for a while and she would make him feel better about being selfish as if it was ok. He's lied to me for months, slept with me after sleeping with her (without protection). I feel so betrayed, lost and empty. I don't know what to do. Do I hold to what I said originally, do I just kick him out, what should I do? He cheated so I feel he should get out. But I told him I wanted to know the truth and the whole truth in order to possibly start fresh in the future. I dunno what to do.
Excellent Posted March 4, 2009 Posted March 4, 2009 The next time he's out of the house, you pack his things, leave them on the doorstep and then you change the locks on the doors. If he starts any drama you tell him to f*** off. He's been lying, lying and lying to you constantly. He won't change his habits, because he knows you will take him back anyway. Find yourself a new man, who actually appreciates and respects you. Heh, i actually got a little pissed reading what you have gone through, and keep letting yourself go through. God, cheaters make me sick. But seriously, end it, end it now. For good. My opinion anyway.
Geishawhelk Posted March 4, 2009 Posted March 4, 2009 And I ditto that post. Completely, unequivocally.
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