Dollie Posted March 4, 2009 Posted March 4, 2009 My boyfriend ended our 2 yr relationship by parading his new girlfriend a month ago. He has lied and cheated on me for 8 months prior and lied to mine and her face! Anyway, in January I loaned him a mobile phone handset and it was a work phone. I have to give back my work phone but he still has the handset (I have the chip) Do I ask him for it? or should I forget it and give an old phone of mine?
Citizen Erased Posted March 4, 2009 Posted March 4, 2009 Forget about it. This is just an excuse to get in contact with him.
jasminetea Posted March 4, 2009 Posted March 4, 2009 No, forget him, forget his new girlfriend, forget the phone. Your contact with him should be zero, not only for your sake, but his too CE - great minds think alike! I won't finish that saying
Author Dollie Posted March 4, 2009 Author Posted March 4, 2009 I was thinking that too and yes it would just be an excuse! His new girlfriend called me yesterday to ask me some questions as he is completely denying that he was with me when he was with her and I mentioned the phone I gave him in January. It got me thinking I am really struggling to get over the fact that he lied and cheated and that he is so convincing with his lies! He told me never to call or text him again and it hurts after being together for so long.
Geishawhelk Posted March 4, 2009 Posted March 4, 2009 So she's discovering he's a liar and a cheater too.... That's interesting, isn't it? She obviously has some (wholly justified) trust issues too, it seems....
Author Dollie Posted March 4, 2009 Author Posted March 4, 2009 It seems that she does not care and threatens to leave him, he feeds her lies and she stays. A bit like what I did! How dim am I? But on the plus side, at least I got rid of him! She is welcome to him!
LoveUrselfFirst Posted March 4, 2009 Posted March 4, 2009 Definitely do not contact him about the headset or whatever it was, just give up an old phone to your job and keep it moving. Also don't accept phone calls from his new girlfriend. She obviously should have realized that if he cheated on you with her, he may or is doing the same toher. Being in contact with his girlfriend will not help you move on. She must have other people she can talk to.
Author Dollie Posted March 4, 2009 Author Posted March 4, 2009 I feel much better today! I am going strict nc now and someone else can deal with his lies and deceit. I am glad I spoke to her on Facebook as I would never have believed he was capable of what he done!
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