carrie3107 Posted March 4, 2009 Posted March 4, 2009 Its been a while since i have posted on here. Been getting on with things, going to college etc. Been NC with the ex is Xmas. (Been broke up since last March. Visits etc over the past year. I get a text message from him a couple of days ago asking how i was, havent heard from you for a while. Told him i was pretty good and asked how he was. He replied been off work since January with depression. I know that the best way to go forward is not to hassle him (been through depression) and even though you want to be there for them the best thing you can do for them is to let them get themselfs sorted, and if he wants to talk then let him. And even after this amount of time, my feelings say keep in touch with him, make sure he's ok. Ask if theres anything he needs etc, go round and visit him cause when i was ill the one thing i needed was my friends and family around me. I think what makes it worse is that he knows nobody in the area. Cause of his work etc he has not had time to maintain contact with his family etc.
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