9Lives Posted March 4, 2009 Posted March 4, 2009 I want to know what make a man happy in a relationship. I AM NOT TALKING ABOUT YOUR BOOTY CALL RELATIONSHIP. I am not talking about the "right now chic" relationships either. I am talking about a relationship with someone you geniunely care for. I want to know what makes a man happy in a relationship. I am now single. I am not dating cause Im kinda business so I want to know what you men are thinking. You all are so confusing to me.
kdark Posted March 4, 2009 Posted March 4, 2009 A full blown relationship? Depends on the man. It's going to be different for everyone.
zaphodb2002 Posted March 4, 2009 Posted March 4, 2009 I usually judge long term potential by how well a girl can challenge me intellectually, as well as be independent without me, rather than someone who's looking for someone to "complete" them, ya know what I mean? Also, wit. Any girl who can take me down a peg is instantly ten times hotter. Gotta keep my ego in check, lol.
Woggle Posted March 4, 2009 Posted March 4, 2009 Somebody who will be in it through thick and thin and won't bail because things are less 100% perfect 100% of the time and doesn't just go whatever way her ever changing emotions tend to take her that day.
colosseum Posted March 4, 2009 Posted March 4, 2009 Somebody who will be in it through thick and thin and won't bail because things are less 100% perfect 100% of the time and doesn't just go whatever way her ever changing emotions tend to take her that day. Amen. But to add, that she is engaging and open-minded. But this might be going into personal preferences... ...I want to know what you men are thinking. You all are so confusing to me. Really? We confuse you? Might be easier if y'all helped us out--help us help you!
alphamale Posted March 4, 2009 Posted March 4, 2009 I want to know what make a man happy in a relationship. good sex, emotional closeness, companionship and a nice hot home-made meal now and then
Mahatma Posted March 4, 2009 Posted March 4, 2009 Open-minded, relaxed, no temper, does not thrive on drama, and is just plain fun to be around. Oh I described my woman.
alphamale Posted March 4, 2009 Posted March 4, 2009 Open-minded, relaxed, no temper, does not thrive on drama, and is just plain fun to be around. are all those qualities actually available in one female?
Mahatma Posted March 4, 2009 Posted March 4, 2009 are all those qualities actually available in one female? As incredible as it may sound, I have actually secured myself one. Quite a rare find.
fral945 Posted March 4, 2009 Posted March 4, 2009 Well, she must be attractive, have dark features, big boobs, ambitious, goal driven, financially & emotionally stable, loving, adventurous, loyal, exciting, ambitious, stylish, dynamic personality, loves to cook and clean, must love football, heavy metal music, and muscle cars, and must treat me like a king. She would also provide endless amounts of sex, and love to share me with other women and have 3-somes and wild orgies on a regular basis. Or she can just be attractive, give me good regular sex and companionship, and provide limited quantities of nagging & drama.
Author 9Lives Posted March 5, 2009 Author Posted March 5, 2009 Well, she must be attractive, have dark features, big boobs, ambitious, goal driven, financially & emotionally stable, loving, adventurous, loyal, exciting, ambitious, stylish, dynamic personality, loves to cook and clean, must love football, heavy metal music, and muscle cars, and must treat me like a king. She would also provide endless amounts of sex, and love to share me with other women and have 3-somes and wild orgies on a regular basis. Or she can just be attractive, give me good regular sex and companionship, and provide limited quantities of nagging & drama. you got life and b/shi/ mixed up dude
Nicodaemos Posted March 5, 2009 Posted March 5, 2009 Trust. Friendship, a willingness to give up all(only if he is as well) and honesty. after that i draw a complete blank. flaws in people are just a part of them and arent typically something that needs to be corrected, just understood, and taken into account. I dont expect anyone to give up all right away, but only if they feel they can trust their companion. Yea, that is about all i can think of. and yes, that is for the long term, committed relationship. Not all men are the same, so it depends on who they are. and if you wonder about that, look through this thread.
BCCA Posted March 5, 2009 Posted March 5, 2009 Honesty and communication. Seriously, being able to talk and discuss things is the most important thing for me.
ate_the_paint Posted March 5, 2009 Posted March 5, 2009 Important aspects of a relationship? Hmmm. Well, trust is a big one for me. So are NO ambiguities (I know where I stand with her...I hate head games or when those nagging feelings of insecurity start to creep in). I like equality and roles. For instance I love it for a girl I'm with to be successful in her career, but at the same time I like her to be feminine in other aspects. I love to cook and have no problem with kitchen work, but I also like to feel like a man in other areas of life. I like affection. I love giving affection and I love receiving it. Sex is important and should be every week or more. Romance, of course, and long conversations about anything and everything. A bit of time apart is great so not feeling trapped is important, but spending time with my loved one is important too. It's all a balancing act. Little signs of appreciation are key for me, as are unexpected compliments. Nice dates, regardless how long we're together, and of course travel and adventures together. Finally, the promise of a great future for the relationship is important, too. Unfortunately my ideal relationship never seems to be a girl's ideal relationship, but I'm stubbornly refusing to change what I look for!
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