Funkymonkey Posted March 4, 2009 Posted March 4, 2009 It's been a more than a month with this girl from work. We've hit it off on several dates now, all of them were having her over at my house watching a movie and cuddling together. I've really gotten to like her more and more, but since then I just can't read what she wants. For the past 2 weeks, it's seemed like she has completely cooled off and lost interest. I don't doubt her at all since I've backed off quite a bit and have been kinda treating her like a friend, why? About 3 weeks ago, she sent me a random text asking me something completely random it saids this. Have you ever heard of the lonely island stuff?? I responded no. She saids you've dissapointed me greatly, me being me, I overreact and overthink this. Then for some stupid reason I tell her what I thought about her, because I thought she wanted the DL on how I thought about her. Nope big mistake, it had nothing to do with that, and I feel more like and idiot and a pussy for telling her how I feel over text. She said " I just don't want a relationship right now." Trust me I wanted to tell her in person but it was a complete misunderstanding. Anyways we got past that I apologized. The next time I saw her was on valentines at work. I played it off cool like nothing happened, and just looked at her like a freind, she seemed to give me these signs of interest like she liked me alot more than before. I didn't take much notice to it. Next saturday rolls by same thing. And I can defenetly tell that she just seems to not care anymore. I just want to know what I did wrong? I'm pretty sure she's freindzoned me and there isn't much I can do other than move on. It's gonna be kinda hard since I still have to see her every Saturday, but should I have made the move? I made the mistake of telling her she said no and I backed off, then she seemed to like me and I still didn't make a move. Is this my fault? Any suggestions sorry for the long read
Dawn26 Posted March 4, 2009 Posted March 4, 2009 Move on!! It sounds like she may be interested and maybe she was testing you. Or it sounds like she likes to play games a lot.
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