Lucky555 Posted March 4, 2009 Posted March 4, 2009 For the past month he has been contacting my on my facebook and aim. Every week! Its all online. He tries to flirt. I don't bite. I tried to be polite and keep things like ok between us since we have mutual friends. At first i thought it would go away About him: Still in contact with an ex that calls him with her problems (one of the reasons why we are not together) I think he has self-esteem issues He is anti-social (has probably 2 friends, rarely goes out!) hes 27. he doesn't work out or do anything for fun =depressive always is talking about women objectively I am the opposite of these qualities. I think he needs therapy to the point where he should deal with his issues. I can say WE are not friends. (not after his bunch of games/manipulation/lies) I don't want anything to do with him. SO BLOCK. There is my rant.
confused_2008 Posted March 4, 2009 Posted March 4, 2009 I guess you don't have any questions and I don't have any answers, but is this the snack guy or somebody else?
chrislovestosurf Posted March 4, 2009 Posted March 4, 2009 maybe go easy on him, hes probably got a lot of hurt inside.
kdark Posted March 4, 2009 Posted March 4, 2009 maybe go easy on him, hes probably got a lot of hurt inside. I agree. He's very lonely.
SoulSearch_CO Posted March 4, 2009 Posted March 4, 2009 How about deleting him from your FB (why are you still friends on there, anyway?) and AIM? I'd also ignore/block him from the two. If he has your email, you can put a filter in place that sends his email straight to your trash. Then you don't even have to bother with reading his nonsense or even know that he's trying to contact you. Sounds to me like he's trying to keep the drama going so he can have some excitement in his life. LOSER - block him.
Author Lucky555 Posted March 4, 2009 Author Posted March 4, 2009 How about deleting him from your FB (why are you still friends on there, anyway?) and AIM? I'd also ignore/block him from the two. If he has your email, you can put a filter in place that sends his email straight to your trash. Then you don't even have to bother with reading his nonsense or even know that he's trying to contact you. Sounds to me like he's trying to keep the drama going so he can have some excitement in his life. LOSER - block him. This is the post i agree with. He does not care about me so why should i bother talking to him he is a loser. He keeps making statements like people change but being very indirect. He doesn't come out and say anything direct ever. I think he wanted me to start "liking him" again and give him attention. I had some feelings initially when he started contacting me and its like what we had came back..but then i said wait this is exactly what happened the last time i decided to give it a go, then i ended up with the sour end it. So now i'm not biting and im a lot happier i dont have to deal with his drama and bs. he is the type of guy that gets really warm and then backs off. Yea hes been hurt in the past, he has commitment issues, hes selfish and still dealing with his issues. I can't deal, i want a "loving, warm hearted, guy without issues!" Thanks for the replies. I hate ex's thinking they get another shot and thinking its going to be easy to enter my life again!!!! No way.
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